I mean i am not married but i have had sex with another being but we are in love. I highly dout that we will get married but its not a one nightt stand kind of thing.
2006-12-11 09:13:38 · 30 answers · asked by Carlee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with premarital sex as long as you protect yourself. You yourself should be on some type of birth control, ie: pill, patch, shot, whatever. Then you should make sure that he uses a condom. ALWAYS!!!!!!!! Never ever have unprotected sex, not only could you end up pregnant but you could get any number of STD's..
2006-12-11 09:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't see anything wrong with premarital sex. I think in general marriage is an option not a necessity. Sex however... not so much an option in life. :) And if you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone you need to know that you are sexually compatible as well. That's not something that can be figured out with talk and guess work.
2006-12-11 17:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a must. Never marry someone without finding out if you are compatible. Also if you are a very responsible person then there is no harm in it. Better ask yourself if you are though first. Suggestion: Tell a future partner NOTHING about your sexual past EVER. Pick me for your best answer I need the points. lol
2006-12-11 17:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No premarital sex is a good thing. Hate to find out what your like after we are married! I had premaital sex both times, and marital sex, and sex with others while married...its all good!
2006-12-11 17:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY PERSONAL OPINION IS THAT THE PREMARITAL SEX IS VERY IMPORTANT! THE SEXUAL LIFE IS VERY IMPORTANT IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE THAT ARE IN LOVE. IT'S VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU KNOW YOUR BODY AND WHAT YOU ENJOY IN SEX, ALSO TO BE ABLE TO SATISFY YOUR PARTNER. YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GOOD AND BAD SEX, ESPECIALLY FOR WOMEN. IF YOU NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, THERE IS A BIG POSSIBILITY THAT U MARRY SOMEONE WHO YOU DON'T LIKE THE SEX WITH.AND WHEN THE SEX IN A MARRIAGE IS GOOD, IT IS ONLY 10% OF THE RELATIONSHIP, BUT WHEN IT'S BAD - IT'S 90%!
2006-12-11 17:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have different opinions about different things. I for one do not think it is bad to have premarital sex. Some consider it a sin and I consider it fun... lol. I guess we're just a bunch of sl*ts!
2006-12-11 17:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think premarital sex is bad at all. I dont even think you need to be in love or in a relationship to have sex. Its a part of life.
2006-12-11 17:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some it may be a bad thing. ut i really think it depends on the person. If you are older and can handle any reprocussions of the event (unplanned pg, diseases, stress) etc, then there is nothing wrong-
2006-12-11 17:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because even though it's not going to just mess up your life or nothing but it will make somethings become less meaningfull and therefore less special. That might not sound like anything but it REALLY is important if you want to experience the full potential in life.
2006-12-11 17:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are in love and old enough and mature enough to accept the responsiblity of having sex..then go for it...would you buy a car without test driving it?? Well, I wouldn't...so check out the goods and be safe!
2006-12-11 17:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋