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me and my bf ,av bin together 4months ,shud i move in ? we get on really well i only go home twice a week as it is ! he tell me hes wants me to move in, is this too soon? k8 x

2006-12-11 09:13:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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4 months doesn't seem very long, but as you only go home twice a week, you have practically moved in any way. I just feel that the fact you have asked this question, means you have some doubts. You don't say if you would have to give up accommodation or that you live with parents/friends. If you have to give up accommodation, then I would think very carefully. Good luck with whatever your decide to do.

2006-12-11 09:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0 0

Hello,

Ive been with my partner for 2 years just over and i certainly wouldnt suggest you move in after just 4 months.
Trust me ive made this mistake b4!!!! Even if you havent rowed over anthing yet....the time will come and its nice to know you can go elsewhere to calm down. I never thought me and a past partner would ever had a wrong word to say to eachother. We moved in together after just 5 months. Everything seemed just perfect, but then it all fell to pieces!

You dont really know someone till you live with them. For some it works and for some thier partner changes into someone they never really knew. But im sure you dont wana hear me go on.......so

my advice to you mate, is ATLEAST give it 6months to a year. After atleast a year you will know abit more about your boyfriend and will hopefully be more sure if this relationship is going to work or not. God, if i had moved in with every partner ive had after just four months i would of set a world record. Lol.

Your asking this question as your not too sure yourself. Its all to do with the honeymoon period honey. Everyone has this period with new relationships, you always are together and miss eachother wen your apart. Give it abit longer mate. If your boyfriend truely wants to be with you he will wait and understand.

If he pesters you into it......that is already your first sign that this relationship wont work.

All the best to you x

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2016-11-25 21:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by nations 4 · 0 0

It's a bit soon I think, 4 months is not long at all to be with some-one. Why the rush?

2006-12-11 09:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by F 3 · 0 0

Don't know how old you are. It's a bit soon. Make sure if things go wrong you've got somewhere to go to live eg parents ? Good luck

2006-12-11 09:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0 0

its up to you huni.
if you feel happy with the situation and can afford it then do it.
remember always make sure you have somewhere to go and live if it doesnt work out.
i have been with my fella nearly 3 years n we still dont live together. its different time for different people.

2006-12-11 09:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

4 mounts too earlier

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2006-12-11 09:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if ur like that wiv eachother go 4 it. i wasnt wiv my guy that long b4 we moved in together and we r still goin strong. gud luk

2006-12-11 09:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by steph_wright48 2 · 0 0

You need to make your own decision on this. You seem compatible.

2006-12-11 09:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 0 0

No,you should probably work on your spelling and grammar first.

2006-12-11 09:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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