im a bit confused: when you ask a girl out on a date and she says yes and you guys are going out mabey evn have kissed a bit why is it that when you tell them that you ( i have noticed this in films alot aswell)love them( i love you) do they act all syrprised as if it were just a proposal i mean does asking somebody out mean i love you or not pls answer me its driving me crazy
2006-12-11 09:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by lukas s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! IT SO DOES NOT!
saying "i love you" means a lot to a girl and never say it if you dont absolutely mean it! Many kids under age 15 never really even know what love is anyways. I sure dont!
2006-12-11 09:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short....no
I would think you were emotionally unstable if you said it to me after a date or two and a kiss.
I'm presuming you are very young and therefore haven't yet experienced real love but it will take a bit more than that for you to actually be in love. I'm not just talking about physical stuff but experiences together.
2006-12-11 09:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by delphi13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking someone out doesn't mean you love them. Love may come months later or not at all. It can't come on the first date.
2006-12-11 09:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, relax. A first date doesn't get all that serious immediately. It's best to leave the 'I love you' part at the end of the date, if you still feel like it. when yo uask somebody out, it simply means that you like them, not love them. The date is to get to know each other more.
2006-12-11 09:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ashali 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, asking someone out does not mean you love them. It means that you find them attractive. Love can only develop over time when you get to know someone properly.
2006-12-11 09:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, enable's forget approximately approximately all the sexist human beings accessible! that's the twenty-first freaking century. in case you like somebody, tell them. females shouldn't could experience backseat to adult males all of our lives purely because of the fact that is considered "custom". Screw that, lol! I even have asked out adult males in the previous, and many times it is going fairly lots. adult males like females that take fee. in case you i like somebody then I tell them. i think of that's how all females could think of. Yeah it feels good to get asked out, yet enable's settle for it, 0.5 the inhabitants does not have the balls for that. often times the lady purely has to get the relationship all started, then the guy can take over from there.
2016-10-18 03:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if a guy asks me out on a date, im not going to assume he loves me. if we've never gone out before and he loves me, i'd be a little creeped out. don't tell someone that you love them unless you think they're at least somewhat close to feeling that way as well.
2006-12-11 10:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by lloydbanks214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why say I Love You on the first date? That's why they're so surprised! Slow down, mate.
2006-12-11 09:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her u love her...thats gonna scare her off..how could u love her after such a short period...just go with the flow and dont rush things
2006-12-11 09:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by theinnocencenextdoor 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt mean that u love them
2006-12-11 09:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋