Every time I've liked a guy, i don't know how to talk to him because I get really nervous. I've tried talking to guys before, but sometimes once they find out I like them, they get really weird around me, or just clam up. I've been told that I'm pretty before, and I have a nice personality, but why do the guys freak out when they know I like them?
2006-12-11 09:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by Lindsay R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they freak out because you freak out and don't really realize. My best advice is for you is to relax and realize that hot guys are just guys. Be yourself and don't put too much effort into it. I am talking from experience, guys started paying more attention to me when I started trying to hook them up with my friends, because I was just being myself and having fun and they liked that. I'm not saying to play games, but just try not to focus so much on the fact that you are attracted to them. Good luck!
2006-12-11 09:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by noelis12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know.... I always had the same problem. I ended up just waiting for the guy to come to me because it seemed I kept freaking them out.
2006-12-11 17:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*shrugs* We cannot see how you behave around them or do not know what you say, what your body language is, etc so there's no way we can know why they "freak out".
If it troubles you so, why not let them do the approaching for a while...until you discover what it is about you that has been disturbing to guys in the past, and decide if you want to change it or not...
2006-12-11 17:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and see if he likes you too.
2006-12-11 17:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Little SC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋