What can I do to cheer her up? Like things to do, and say and such.
2006-12-11 08:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can probably take her out or cook for her. Spend some time with her, do things she likes to do. Im pretty sure that would cheer her up.
2006-12-11 08:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess knowing why she is sad will help in deciding why she is sad. You can try and figure out how to please her and chear her up, but without knowing what is really wrong, it probalbly wont' help. I see much sadness during the holiday seasons. Many are depressed and lonely. Try and find out why she is sad and this will help in determining how to help. You may want to ask her how you can help. Hopefully you 2 have an open communication toegether were you can share this. You are both suppose to be there for each other and lift each other up. Let her know you have noticed her sadness and would like to help and ask how. Good luck. Remebmer that sometimes it's hard to open up, so keep asking and assuring her that you care! Eventually she will let go and let you in.
2006-12-11 08:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Flaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, have you thought about asking her why she is sad? Maybe there's a problem in her life that you can help her to solve...but you can't do that unless you know what it is thats bothering her...i've always found the best way to deal with problems is to discuss them...
If for whatever reason this isn't possible then how about buying her flowers or taking her for a meal? Or maybe if your not short of cash you could take her away for a weekend break?....
2006-12-11 08:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by SHEFFIELDSTEEL1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her, if you really care then you will listen. Sometimes things happen in ones life and we put people we care about on the back burner while we deal with our own things. If she doesnt feel like you guys are working out u need to know so u can move on but most likely she is just dealing some things and need you to be supportive.
2016-05-23 06:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Andra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think the first thing you need to do is figure out why she's sad...the best way to do that if you don't know is ask her!
Us women are precarious creatures. One thing that's hardest for men to understand is that sometimes when we are sad we want our space. And most of the time, when we want our space from our boyfriends, it doesn't mean that we don't like them anymore, we just want space. Try to respect that and you will do well :)
2006-12-11 08:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mookie! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's stressed, maybe she's quietly depressed about something- family life, body issues, financial problems. Maybe she's got something on her mind.
Make sure you give her plenty of cuddles and kisses, and make sure you let her know you are there for her if she needs to talk, and also, give her space if she needs it.
Let her know how much you love her, and be open about your life with her in case she is dwelling on something she thinks you may/may have not have done/are doing.
2006-12-11 08:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to communicate better with her. You can do this by asking her what is wrong, but while she is explaining to u u have to listen openly. This will show her that she can tell u n e thing and ur relationship will grow and u will brighten up her day amazingly!!!! I PROMISE!
2006-12-11 08:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by shabalabadingdong 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her what's wrong?
Maybe it's something she needs to talk to someone about but she may also want to keep it to herself.
The best way to find out is to ask.
And just let her know that you care and will be there for her through anything.
2006-12-11 08:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, but she would probally like you to be with her. Let her know she isn't alone. She would probally like you to be with her at places talking calmly don't push her. She is probally going through a rough time at home and you should probally give her some comfort.
2006-12-11 08:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to cheer her up. Is she suffering from depression? If she is depressed, she can't be cheered up. Here is a site. Look at it and see what you think: http://www.depression.com/
2006-12-11 08:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋