The guy i like has been really depressed lately and if i told him i liked him would it cheer him up a little???
2006-12-11 08:43:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like him...its not fake
2006-12-11 08:50:48 · update #1
Now, don't say it if you don't mean it. Being compassionate is one thing, saying another without feelings, would only complicate the friendship.
2006-12-11 08:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on why hes depressed, if he just got over a relationship, then you should give him some time and space. However if hes depressed about school offer to help him do better. If hes just depressed for the sake of being depressed, offer to do something fun with you. If he accepts (like a movie) then tell him at the end of the date that you really enjoyed yourself and that you wouldnt mind seeing him again. Give him a reason to not be depressed and wake up every morning, to see you.
2006-12-11 08:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by DevilzAdvocate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may cheer him up in a way, but keep in mind that he may be depressed about something much deeper than what's on the surface..
..As a teenager, I was withdrawn...insecure about myself mainly. I can say YES, someone telling me they like me (when they really really do!) WOULD HAVE HELPED!
But that's not the case with everyone...I guess what I'm saying here..is..it couldn't hurt!!! go for it hun!
2006-12-11 08:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mookie! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not, I mean if he is depressed cuz if he got off a bad relationship it might not be the best thing. But just be a good friend, I'm sure he will appreciate that
2006-12-11 08:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know untill you ask cause it might put more pressure on him. He might not feel the same way and not knowing what to say might up set him more. I say go with what feels right, but chocolate and a nice hug always makes people feel better 2.
2006-12-11 08:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what makes him depress, u need to find out what the problem is and help him work through it telling him that you like him is like puting a band aid on a cut. (the problem will still exist)
2006-12-11 08:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go so far but, just let him know he's not alone. Be a comfort for him. Let him know you care because there is a good chance he will warm up to you greatly.
2006-12-11 08:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe-----
no u if u don't mean it don' tsay it, u can get in a lot of trouble trust me
u'll wish u never sid it
refer him 2 someone
-Jking
2006-12-11 08:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he even know you? don't just come on like that. try being a friend and ask if you can help and work it from there. maybe he's been dumped by another girl.
2006-12-11 08:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try to figure out what hes upset about first. But if that happened to me im pretty sure it would make my troubles go away.
2006-12-11 08:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Slappn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋