My ex-boyfriend and I were dating for about half a year. Since we broke up, we've been close friends. Now, a month later, I've found a new bf. To get back at me, he's flirting with my best friend. She doesn't like him, but she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. Plus, he does it right in front of me. What should I do?
2006-12-11 08:43:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put up with his behavior! Try and avoid him and if you can't ask your friend to let him down- but not too gently :)-.
2006-12-11 08:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his A S S! You have a new man, why are you worried about him flirting with you best friend? If you know he is doing this to get back at you, then maybe he knows that you still have feeling for him. Focus on your new man and forget about him
2006-12-11 08:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. All he is doing is trying to get a reaction from you, and if you do anything, he will get what he's looking for.
Anyway, he is your EX, so what difference does it really make, unless, of course you are jealous.
I would encourage him to find someone else, even if it is your best friend. Why should you stand in the way of their relationship, what ever it may be?
2006-12-11 08:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can take one of two approaches with this. if it makes you uncomfortable you should talk to him in private and hopefully he'll understand. if your friend doesnt like him she should do the same so you all are clear on where you stand as far as relationships go. but if it doesnt really bother you, ignore it and let him know that you're over him...like bring your bf around him!!
2006-12-11 08:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he shouldn't be trying o get back at you because you guys broke up so he should really move on.
I think that you should probably just ignore him and if it really gets on your nerves tell him to cute it out and it's not helping.
2006-12-11 08:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by ellizi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ignore him or go right up to him and say stop it now i know u are trying to make me jealpous but me and jeff(example name of ur bf) are a item and u cant break us up u were nice when we were together but it isnt right anymore now lets both go our separate ways and get on with our lives!
2006-12-11 08:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to be really killer, talk to your friend and then act like your ex isn't there. Every sound he makes is a "whisper of the wind" and if he says or does something really like unexpected to your friend (like kiss her) she'll either smack him or lord KNOWS what else...
2006-12-11 09:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should be worrying more about your feelings than the feelings of your ex. I suggest if it bothers you, you stop hanging out.
2006-12-11 08:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes him, she will fall for him, she will get hurt by him, and there is nothing you can do. I don't understand girls sometime. They say they want a nice guy, but...
2006-12-11 08:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mike Honcho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing. aren't you flirting with your old boyfriend. What does your new boyfriend say about you and your ex boy friend.
What he does with your girlfriend, is none of your business. and if your girlfriend does not like him. it is up to her to tell him to please leave her alone.
2006-12-11 08:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋