Tell me truthfully. Let's say you are a married woman with kids and you're 35 years old. If a young man (18 years old) keeps hitting on you KNOWING that you are married, does this turn you on or off? He'll say stuff like "you look great in those pants" or "your hair looks nice today" and look at you intensely.
2006-12-11 08:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by waterbottle09090 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure why it would sicken you, unless there is something about the kid that is a total turn off -- like he gives off a sleazy aura or he stares too long or thinks he's god's gift.
2006-12-11 08:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Karen L 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well compliments like you look nice in that shirt or those pants sicken me but stuff like nice hair or even nice shirt are nice but otherwise a 18-yr old hitting on me sickens me.
2006-12-11 16:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'll admit, the song "Stacey's Mom" where the teenaged boy is interested in his friend's Mom was cute and it's an interesting fantasy but that's all it is, just a fantasy.
If a kid half my age was flirting with me, I would find a way to let him down gently but I'd have to have him respect my boundaries. I'm no pedophile! And 18 year olds shouldn't be hitting on 35 year olds!
Now, if he's 31 and I'm 48, well, then I might consider it, LOL!
2006-12-11 16:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I would be flattered but I certainly wouldn't let him know it. I would tell him that I was married and only interested in grown-ups.
2006-12-11 16:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, that would turn me off. At that point in my life, the last thing I need is another kid to pacify. Gross!!!! He smells tooooo much like jail bait.
2006-12-11 16:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well complements are always nice but when they get to that point and being in a relationship then I thik that it is really gross.
2006-12-11 16:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a little sickening,but he could be gay... so ya nevver kno. but i would tell him to back down a little bit. but thank him for the remarks.
2006-12-11 16:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm i would be flattered but pay no attention to it. Focus on your marriage Miss
2006-12-11 16:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Um, I'd be flattered but I'd tell him to back off a bit :)
2006-12-11 16:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by kisme86 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sound, like he has a crush on you. Tell. him to stop!! If, you are sicken by his remark.
2006-12-11 16:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋