who would wish this to happen to them.. like i know i would .. does any1 feel the same and do you reckon you have to change towns or even country to find it .. what do ye all think ehh...
2006-12-11 08:41:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is for saaaaaaabbbooo... shudn that be saaaaddddo
2006-12-11 08:45:53 · update #1
True love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with thier soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question.
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe.
2006-12-15 08:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure there's a such element as true love. i in my view do not have confidence in love first sight. in the previous each thing sight you will possibly be bodily fascinated in some one you could love how they seem,scent, dress, and so on. whether incredibly loving somebody isn't instant,it grows and develops into the attractive element we call love. many human beings do whether say they have been in love in the previous each thing sight, yet i in my view do not purchase it.
2016-10-18 03:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes. I know people who have fallen in love at first sight and I know exactly what true love is!
Do you have to move to find it? Not always. He may be very close or then again he may not. I'm English and didn't meet him until I came to the US.
2006-12-11 08:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me! Then we got married - 19 years later we divorced, but I will always love him.
Now I am in love with someone that I was friends with first - so I have had both and I like the "being friends first" type of relationship.
Remember the crocodile hunter? Steve Irwin and his wife had love at 1st sight! Their marriage lasted too
2006-12-11 08:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...it's probably more like 'lust at first sight.' But I do believe that we sometimes cross paths with others that we feel a special connection to, a certain comfortable feeling that makes us feel safe, etc. I don't think we have to cross the country to find someone like that though, if we're meant to meet them in this lifetime we will. That's what I think!
2006-12-11 08:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! it is not love at first site that is just an old saying we fall in lust or infatuation at first site love is a very powerful word and it is as a plant we must first plant the seed and tend to it to make it grow in to a lovely plant with long leaves that is how love blossoms.Nah. Love is in all the right places you just got to look there.If it is companionship, you desire then you are not looking for love you are looking for a set up..with frills.
2006-12-11 08:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a such thing of true love.It might take u time 2 find it but just know there is someone out there for u.
And i don't think that there is such a thing as love at first sight. you might think that you love a person because they are really cute,funny,or really nice to you.
2006-12-11 08:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight - NO
True love - YES
2006-12-11 08:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love at first sight is real. It happened to my mom and dad.
2006-12-11 08:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love at first sight is real, and so is true love, they are rare and hard to find and i feel blessed to have experienced the latter (love at first sight). love at first sight is a very powerful experience as well as true love (well, i have this one too, guess i am just really lucky :-) ). if you ever have it, hold on to it, for it is very very special
2006-12-11 08:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by ccmfreak101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋