I've been with my bf about 5 months already. It's almost our 6 month and im hinting him to get me this

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necklace for our 6 months. but he's saying that he's gonna get me the it wen we're married aka "when the time is right". the problem i see is that he dont noe how to make me happy, by giving me present,flower...althoug im happi to be with him^^. i gave him little gifts for him for our recent month anniversary (1st,2nd,3rd..month).sometimes wen i get mad, he wuld jus stand there and i wuld walk away and he still wouldnt come for me and ask me wat's wrong. he doesnt hold my hands, its im the only one to hold his hands. he say he's haven date that well nd he dont understand stuff that well in a relationship. i love him and i wont dump him for his.. shyness.... but sometimes i jus want him to get the stuff instead of me telling him to get it...>.<

Answer 1

Well aren't we a little princess???
Why should your boyfriend buy you ANYTHING for a 6 month??
Why do you expect reciprocation just because you buy him stuff. A gift is just that, a gift. You should NOT be expecting anything in return. That makes you look VERY selfish.
You should NOT be dictating what he should do & how he should act & what he should do. You storm off when you get mad? I would let you walk away too without coming after you. You sound VERY immature & selfish to me. Grow up or it won't be You dumping him, it will be HIM dumping you. And from the sound of your "I" want this & "I" want that he won't be the ONLY one who dumps you. You are NOT "entitled". Being in a relationship does NOT mean that the man buys you presents because YOU think YOU deserve them.
GROW UP!!!!

Answer 2

Girl, from the things you say, I think you are still pretty young. When you are older and in a serious relationship, you'll realise that love isn't declared with a necklace or gifts or flowers. If the man stays up late to help you with the laundry, bothers to take out the trash, sacrifices all his 'boys night out', massages your feet when you are pregnant with his child, calls home to check on your progress, blows off his hard earned salary on the family and baby's insurance policies, quits smoking for your sake, forgets anniversaries but remembers your birthday, eats your horrible cooking every night and not complain, puts up with all the PMS tantrums.....that is love. You've got a LOOONG way to go, gal!

Answer 3

From your question, it seems that you are seeking for some romantical and physical act of love. Well, some guy is just as shy as your bf. You just need to help him to be more open. But it is good to enjoy the stuff after you are officially married.

Answer 4

haha.. perhaps ur bf are those push cart. U have to push them inorder for him to move forward. Just tell him bit by bit. Let him learn how to please u.. show him little bit of appreciation whenever he done something for u. Little thing also count.. if im not wrong, ur bf shld be a very faithful person. U are luckY!

Answer 5

How old are you?? You seem like a young child. Maybe 14

Answer 6

is the whole month by month anniversary thing really that important? i mean really...maybe he is shy and maybe he hasn't had many good relationships work with him, maybe he'll get you something when he feels he's ready to give it to you. it shouldn't be about how many gifts he gives you

Answer 7

You really need to learn how to spell.

Answer 8

try spell check

Answer 9

i'm sorry but it's his fault if he don't change you'll never be happy although you actually are

Answer 10

uhhh. ok