Im still in locve with my ex and he says im the one for him but the is dating this other grl he said he wants to make sure that i am the one. I want to date other ppl but wen my ex is single i want to b to so we can get bak together. Im like scared to dat because i dont want him to think i dont want him anymore and we r still super super close idk what should i do?
2006-12-11 08:39:07 · 16 answers · asked by cb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey well i've had the same problem you have and i got over it by learning from my mistake so i hope this helps.
Well when me and my ex broke up i thought i had lost the love of my life and i decided i would wait for him and i did for a long time then i finally realized it was time to try and move on so i went out with this other guy but everything reminded me of my ex but i knew i had to move on so finally my ex asked me back and i broke up with my bf for him and 4 days after our one month he broke up with me and told me it didnt feel the same. I finally realized what a bad mistake i made of breaking up with the other guy for someone who already screwed up with me once.
Get over this guy try your best i know what i'm telling you
now more than ever i can say that it was the biggest mistake of my life breaking up with the other guy for him and i've tried so hard to get the other guy back but i cant. and i live with that regret everyday dont make the same mistake i did. Please dont go back with your ex. trust me there is someone better out there.
and the whole "your the one for him" my ex used to tell me that all the time trust me he just wants to make sure that after he finishes messing around with other girls he still will have some one to put up with his ****
Email plz if you need anymore help i've been through alot with my ex and it's not worth it.
2006-12-11 08:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Littlelibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be, trust me...it's meant to be, and it will happen in the future at some point. I know how it is to still have feelings for someone...it sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants!
Think about it this way--what if you pass up "the one" while you're waiting on this loser? :)
One thing I've learned--no matter how great someone is, there's always something better out there!!!! plenty of fish in the sea hun!
2006-12-11 08:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mookie! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Love nothing of life, for life is about giving it back. You should only appreciate things; some very much.
Hold all your feelings close; this one will last forever, and the pain will disappear leaving only good feelings to remember.
2006-12-11 08:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invest your time into your friends that you didn't spend much time with before because of the bf.....now you have time to catch up & hang out....who knows they might have a guy friend they could introduce you to or take you out to meet some guys...whatever you do take your time & dont rush into a relationship you will hate....enjoy being single for a while, noone likes desperation
2006-12-11 08:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by SoccerBoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit by the window like a good little puppy while he's out getting his grove on
2006-12-11 08:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by saabbbbbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not once a cheater always a cheater last night i had a discussion with some friends in almost 90% of relationships some one has cheated, is cheating or will cheat and his was a mistake so just give him one more chance if he does it again then give him no more chances but it was her fault dont blame him
2016-05-23 06:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always a tough question, my advice is to wait for him, if you love him, don't hurt somebody else by doing a little fling, that always ends in pain, and i know from experience, that they guy will not be happy, so just wait for him, it might take a while but if you love him, it will all be worth it <3
2006-12-11 08:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by ccmfreak101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaah how can people that say they love one another do things like that. just not cool..you test drive a vehicle, not someone you love
2006-12-11 08:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and if you are the one than he needs to dump the other girl and be with you.
2006-12-11 08:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still young you should explore your options and see what is out there for you! it's what he is doing! so you should do the same.
2006-12-11 08:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋