i have a group of friends and we regularly socialise with each other the thing is i fancy one of them
a few weeks ago we got off with each other but never had sex since then she has told me that she cant see us being together
ive accepted this sort of but im finding it hard going out in the group especially as everyone knows what happened
she is quite flirty and some people in the group are attracted to her and im getting more frustrated with the whole situation....help need advice on how to handle this!!!!
2006-12-11 08:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by trixiecat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes getting off with the others too.
2006-12-11 08:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she may like someone else in the group - she may have even got off with you to make them jealous. It's hard for you - you have obviously got a bit emotionally attached following on from the incident. Perhaps you could step back for a while - maybe see the group less frequently to give yourself a bit of time to get over her. It might also reveal where her intentions are really leaning. If later on she still hasn't formed anything with anyone else in the group you may feel able to be good friends with her again. Best of luck..x
2006-12-11 16:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she knew what she was doing.Otherwise she is waiting for you to make a move....who knows.
If not ,you need to find another group to hang around with,she is playing everyone off.
Take care
2006-12-11 16:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, the intricacies of the Chav mating ritual! Can I study your group for a book?
2006-12-11 18:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by alfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still think she is your lover ...she isn't ..why do you still think she is your lover .. move on ..
Your turn may come again with her ..you had a bite at the cherry..now it's someone Else turn ..
You think and act like you own her ..maybe she has high expectations from a fella .. cant bear the rejection ..all man are like that ...get over it ..
2006-12-11 17:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but i have to be blunt you can do two things ignore her or try not to go out in that particular group for a while
2006-12-11 16:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and hang loose about it... if she is there when your there you can still flirt and chat too her. try and talk about other people you have met and then she might get jelous and want you more. this is effective but its not very good. if it doesnt work... theyre are plenty more fish in the sea
2006-12-11 16:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to ignore your feelings and try and forget what happened. obviously it doesnt phase her to just have sex with you then forget you, so just forget about it. if she wanted anything more than a friendship and random sex you wouldve had it by now.
2006-12-11 18:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by lloydbanks214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound good enough for you. Don't lower yourself.
2006-12-11 16:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋