my parents abuse me and i dont kno what 2 do?

Question

im 13 and my parents have been abusing me since i was about 3 physicall, verball, and emotinal... they hit me ALL the time for no resson... like when i was 4 my mom was sooo mad at me 4 not eating my vegstables that she hit me soo many times that i still have a scare from it and then she told me 2 leave like she kicked me out of the house and i hid in a tree for like hrs... ive always just delt with it... but a few weeks ago my mom was hitting me all the time and she was saying horrible things 2 me everyday that i was so sad that i couldnt go 2 school and i was so scared of what was going 2 happen that i put a bookshelf in front of my door 4 a rlly long time... well my question is what would happen if i told some1? i kno most of the time they send u away 2 live with relatives but i dont kno any1 that lives in america and actully i dont have any that i have ever meet...and also what would happen 2 my parents? i rlly dont kno what 2 do and sometimes it gets rlly scary...what should i do?

like what would happen exaclly if i told some1?

Answer 1

please do talk to someone,
Look up Job and faimly services in the phone book for your area, call without identifying yourself,
this is the agency that would handle this, and they can tell you what options you have.

if they feel that getting you out is the best thing, there are more options than just sending you to faimly,
of course do talk to them, or someone in an authority.

call from the library, or a public phone somewhere if you wish,

Answer 2

If you told someone - you'd be saving yourself possible further bodily injury. Think about it, you're obviously a smart girl, and obviously very scared. At least you're thinking about what could happen to you if you do something about it.

I strongly suggest going to a school counselor and possibly getting the law involved. If there is a battered women's shelter near you - go there - they will listen, help, and support you.

You're old enough to stand up for yourself (13), and to know better.

My guess is that - if your story is as bad as you say it is - Child Protective Services will step in and take you to a shelter of some sort. Now, you are going to be separated from your family - but in your situation, that's not necessarily a bad thing.

Your family - if what you say is true - may face criminal charges and possibly even do some jail time for harming you. Do you have any siblings? It doesn't sound like it - which would be good, if it's just you - take care of yourself. If there are siblings involved, make sure that you are not separated from them. Ensure that you state that you want to remain with your siblings, or you may get separated.

Remember, the one thing you need to do at this stage in your life is get yourself out of a bad situation, get some help - emotionally and physically - and get yourself together before you're an adult.

Good luck to you - I say go for it - get out of that situation, and live a healthy, happy life - you deserve that!

Answer 3

You are 13 and your parents let you on the Internet. You have me doubting you already. They usually call CPS (Child protective Services) a person comes out to your house anonymously and asks you and your parents questions. They either take you away to foster care, or they get the parents into counseling depending on the severity of the situation. I honestly can't tell you what will happen. But someone will be there to protect you from your parents. Since you do not have any relatives you will probably end up in foster care if the social worker even comes to that conclusion. But i honestly don't know what will happen to you. I think you should call them. They make a report and its on your parents record for life with CPS whether they find there to be abuse or not. If anything, it will convince your parents to act right.

Answer 4

Talk to a teacher or counselor at your school. Explain to them what has happened to you and that you are scared. It's normal to feel afraid of being apart from your parents, even when they are abusive. But if you tell someone, then both you and your parents can get help. Sometimes abused children stay with a foster family while their parents get help. Yes, it might mean some scary changes for you, but getting away from the abuse is the first thing that needs to happen. Then you can figure out what's next for you. Good luck.

Answer 5

WELL FIRST OF ALL IF THIS IS GOING ON WHY WORRIE BOUT WHAT WILL HAPPEN , IS THE ABUSE MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR SAFTY ?
if u let some one know they will remove u if they find the abuse allegations to be true , u will be placed in foster care or in an all girls home or boys home depending on your gender , as for your parents well they can face jail time , they will be ordered to get counsling for them selfs take parenting classes etc , and u will also need counsling so u can deal with the anger of the abuse and not be the next generation of abusers

Answer 6

Well things would definitely change, it wouldn't go on the way it is or there wouldn't be any use in telling. I think you'd be put in a safe home, and your parents would be questioned and possibly get in trouble if you can prove they are for sure hurting you.

If you are truly being hurt, hit and yelled at then you should tell someone before you are hurt beyond repair. But just in case, don't ever tell this if it is not true because you could ruin someone.

Answer 7

First thing you need to do is let someone know like a teacher or a counsler. If it really starts to get bad call the police and they might put you into the witness protection program until your parents learn to respect you and not abuse you, also ask one of your close friends to stay at their house.... for a little while..


Best of Luck

Answer 8

You really, really need to tell your school councilor and not be afraid for your parents. I understand that even though they abuse you, you still unconditionally love them, but they've done this so much to you... that you equate abuse with love. Now, your at the point of dealing with it and asking for help... but, your future relationships will include beating from now on. So, to reverse this damage, you have to tell an authority figure and get ongoing counciling so that you won't become a hitter or attract an abuser who will hit you in relationships.

I was abused by my brother so badly that I would hide in the backyard tree and hope he wouldn't kill me. He came after me with a yard tool with a sharp end and he tried to stab me with it. My other brother who didn't live with us caught him in the nick of time and they ended up getting in a physical brawl. I joined the military and became 157 pds of pure muscle. I came home one weekend and my abusive brother started in on me again, only this time, I whooped his ***. He apologized for all of the years of abuse he did to me, but it didn't change the fact that I attracted drug addicted physical abusers who put me in the hospital.

I am coming from a place of wisdom. So, please, tell an authority figure all of this information, get protection and then if you have to live with those you don't know... at least you can get on your feet and discover what a loving and deserving human being you really are. PLEASE do this now before it's too late to do anything.

Answer 9

Tell someone and protect yourself.
I am afraid if all this is true and child protective services confirm the abuse, your parents could be charged.
The thing is, that's ok. No one deserves to be abused.

If you have no family in america, they would most likely put you with a foster home.

Answer 10

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