Im not new to the dating world, but Ive had a few experiances lately that make me think... I dont want to just mess around with someone right now, I want a bf... But how do i know if the guy im "talking" with right now actually likes me or is just looking to get laid?
2006-12-11 08:26:00 · 12 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually, that's up to you. don't LET him have sex with you right away, make his *** earn your trust and body. if u ***** them right away they just think ur a slut, but if u hold off then you're girlfriend material. lol
2006-12-11 08:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't matter how long it takes and how much care he show you, at the end all men will try to get into your pants, it's natural. The key here is to know if this is the only thing he wants or he is wanting to create a real relationship, just see the signs, if he is spending lot of his time and investing money, he cares about a deep relationship, otherwise, but not always, he is going just for sex.
2006-12-11 16:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at first ALL men want to get in the pants of the woman they are dating. That is why they have expressed intrest in you to begin with. This fact does not mean it is necessary for you to give him what he wants. After dating for a while, men tend to develop emotional attachments. The only way to be sure he likes you for you and not your body is to date for a while. You will know if he waits around for you.
2006-12-11 16:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a personal experience with this many times. Just wait him out. If he asks you out, don't let him touch you inappropriately until you know for sure that he likes you for you. If he breaks up with you after about a month or so, then he doesn't really like you. Just give it a few months or longer. If your still together, then he may actually like you. If not, then you know he didn't really like you.
2006-12-11 16:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you know is when he sticks around even though he isn't getting any. You want know if he really likes you if you offer it up right away. You have to make him wait. It's the only way to know for sure.
2006-12-11 16:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with him without having sex. If he has no problem not having a sexual relationship until or if you are ever ready, then he really likes you and isn't just trying to get into your pants. If you sleep with him, you'll never know.
2006-12-11 16:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Laney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he puts his hand in your pants.... if his intentions are good then you'll feel good about the "relationship" you have right now. Always be open and up front .... and if you ever feel uncomfortable let him know right away! Always speak up!
2006-12-11 18:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him get laid. It is your choice and your choice alone. You are suppose to be getting to know the person first. Let him wait !
2006-12-11 16:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him directly. And then it would be good to explain your intentions as it relates to your involvement with him. That way you do not waste each other's time nor do you set up any unrealistic expectations.
2006-12-11 16:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him youve decided to wait til you date someone for 6 months before sleeping with them.
2006-12-11 16:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋