My parents abuse me and i dont kno what to do?

Question

im 13 and my parents have been abusing me since i was about 3 physicall, verball, and emotinal... they hit me ALL the time for no resson... like when i was 4 my mom was sooo mad at me 4 not eating my vegstables that she hit me soo many times that i still have a scare from it and then she told me 2 leave like she kicked me out of the house and i hid in a tree for like hrs... ive always just delt with it... but a few weeks ago my mom was hitting me all the time and she was saying horrible things 2 me everyday that i was so sad that i couldnt go 2 school and i was so scared of what was going 2 happen that i put a bookshelf in front of my door 4 a rlly long time... well my question is what would happen if i told some1? i kno most of the time they send u away 2 live with relatives but i dont kno any1 that lives in america and actully i dont have any that i have ever meet...and also what would happen 2 my parents? i rlly dont kno what 2 do and sometimes it gets rlly scary...what should i do?

Answer 1

You really need to talk to someone.Can you talk to someone at school a teacher or counselor?
How about church,do you know someone there?
I found this website that even has a chat room....they should be able to lead you in the right direction...there is even a 800 number, which is free to call.
I wish you all the luck.......you are very strong to come out and ask....now take the next step at protecting yourself......talk to someone or go to the website and chat....there are other kids there too.

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Answer 2

Honey, the first thing you need to do is go tell a counselor or teacher, or parent of a friend that you trust. If you don't feel comfortable telling anyone at school, there should be an anonymous Child Protective Services Hotline in your area...look it up on Yahoo Yellow Pages and call them from a payphone to tell them what's going on. Telling an adult will give you a step in the right direction towards getting help, and they can help you report the incidents that you're describing to the authorities. There are lots of Foster homes that house teens, and your Social Worker will do the best that they can to find one that suits your needs in your area. What happens to your parents is hard to say, as every case is different. I know how you feel, and everything will be okay. If you want to talk privately about it, you can always e-mail or message me and I'll do my best to help! Hang in there <3

Answer 3

You NEED TO TELL SOMEONE ! They will either send you with another relative, or in a foster home. This is something you NEED to do ! This is VERY URGENT ! Just hold on for like a day then go to school and tell a councelor, and if she or he tries to hit you again, just say mom, dad I love you so much, why do you DO THIS TO ME ! And make them feel sorry for all the horrible things they've done to you ! You're parents would go to jail and not have bail.

Good luck and happy holidays ! I feel really bad for you =(

Answer 4

Tell a school counselor sweetheart, they can help you. Tell someone NOW who can help you. It isn't normal that your parents are abusing you, you need help NOW. If you tell someone your situation will improve and you won't have to be abused again. If you are taken from your parents you will, I promise you be put somewhere where you won't have to worry, ok? The most important thing to do now is report what is happening to you. If you get scared then you pray, God is always with you even if no one else is. Please, sweetie get some help, your life is worth it, so is your sanity.

Answer 5

You need to call child protective services. No one deserves to live like that. You can find them in the yellow pages by county. You may be placed in a diffrent home but it will be better than what your going through now. Good luck to you

Answer 6

Stop worrying about your parents and think about your own safety go to the school counselor NOW u dont have to put up with the abuse

Answer 7

Please go to your school counselor immediately. You need to tell someone what's been going on.
What your parents have done to you is absolutely, positively, 100 percent wrong.
Don't worry about your parents. There are good people who will help you and make sure you are safe.

Answer 8

Your best bet hun is to tell someone....like another family member that you can trust(that WILL NOT tell your mom!)If this abuse keeps on you need to go to the police and report your mom hun,b/c if not she will keep on doing this ot you and she will keep on so bad and end up seriously hurting you.Tell someone NOW,DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!Show them the proof where she hits and beats on you. God bless you hun and take care of yourself.

Answer 9

Don't worry about what happens to your parents....look out for number one...YOU!!! I'd tell anyone that I trusted (a teacher, a minister, a cop). Wherever they put you has got to be better than where you are now.

Answer 10

I totally agree with "Mylove61304", you need to call and get help fast. Call the police and ask for help and you will be placed somewhere safe. Please make the call, it will be hard at first, but it will be the best for you. Take Care and God Bless.