There is this guy I know I wont give names but I have what I think are strong feelings for him. I adore everything about him his eyes, his hair, everything. I think about him all the time and I even broke up with my last boyfriend because my feelings were stronger for the other guy. My question is this love or am I just crazy?
2006-12-11 08:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by Ray IV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While I admit that I felt this way on my first date with my husband, I'm not sure it was true love. Certainly, I didn't trust it since I was still on the rebound. Over time I grew deeply in love. Give yourself some time to get past the infatuation and see if you still are in love or more importantly, compatible. I learned a hard lesson while dating. The lesson I learned is that just because you love someone truly and deeply, doesn't mean that you are compatible or the right person for them. Sometimes you have to walk away.
As cheesy as it sounds, you will find the right person and you will even know it when you find them. I was amazed when it happened to me. Good luck finding your true love!
2006-12-11 08:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by chicagowoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy.
2006-12-11 16:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Helmet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it is just really strong feelings but could possibly turn into love if he has those same feelings for you as well.
2006-12-11 16:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust.
You can't be in love with someone you aren't in a relationship with.
Love takes two people, as well as time, patience and many other things.
Also, everything you mentioned about him pertained to his looks.
Love is an inner attachment to someone's personality, above all else.
2006-12-11 16:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you had so many feelings for him that you had to break off a relationship it must be love. follow your heart ask the guy out. your crazy if you dont.
2006-12-11 16:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated, which can be fun too...but more in love with the idea of being in love with him, than in love with the person he truly is...which may come with time. Whatever it is, I hope you enjoy it, I bet you are glowing and smiling all the time!
2006-12-11 16:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by moto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would have to start a relationship with this person too see if this is love ya know? talk to him see what he is about and even if he is some one you can even be in love with just take it min by min and see what he is all about ! good luck!
2006-12-11 16:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound slightly obsessive if you don't see anything wrong with him, everyone has their flaws... that doesn't mean that you don't really like him... but true lasting love probably takes longer to develop, and you would have to learn more about the real him before you know
2006-12-11 16:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy. It's infatuation, nothing more.
Not to say something might not come of it, but what you are experiencing is nothing but infatuation.
2006-12-11 16:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crazy in love with him i once was like that i liked this girl so much that i thought she went out with someone else so i could be angry at her (I was).
2006-12-11 16:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by nobleicus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋