My best friend Pat of 5 yrs from highschool recently told me that my bf of three months is only dating me to win money from his frat brothers.He said they have a list of girls that fit a certain profile and that have no experience. Who ever gets that girl to sleep with them gets money and then dumps the girl. I feel so sad and cant stop crying. He also said my bf's been cheating on me when he stays later at partys then me.It would explain why other girls are in the back round of some of his calls and sometimes answer his phone. Should i confront him or dump him?
2006-12-11 08:22:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend Pat said it was common knowledge that this is done to the freshmen girls then how can i have not known?so confused.?He even showed me one of my bf's web pages with pictures and clips to prove it.
2006-12-11 08:25:55 · update #1
No sweetie.. Don't dump him or confront him, This is really low. I would suggest gathering up some of your really good friends and doing a little pay back to this guy. How about getting him into a little scene where he thinks he is going to get some, get him nice and tied to the bed, blindfolded. Get a few male friends of yours and snap some pictures of them next to him in bed. Then send the photo's on over to his frat buddies. What a pig this guy has got to be. I am so sorry they are taking advantages of you like this.
2006-12-11 08:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the option of doing both. First, consider how trustworthy your best friend has been in the past. If you believe him then you must take whatever steps are necessary to protect yourself. If what Pat saids is true this guy is a predator, and will not be dumped easily. If you have problems, that's what the dean of women is for on campus--register a complaint if he creeps you out. I would also recommend you be careful with any drinks you consume in his presence, if he's capable of sleeping with you on a bet (or dare) then he's capable of spiking your drinks. And since you said other girls answer his phone calls.....unless he has an explaination for that one it may be time to get away. Good Luck
2006-12-11 16:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only immoral fraternities do that, or something worse. So it is possible. But wether true about your alleged bf, is a puzzle.
In this century, websites and other things to do with technology can be electronically tampered with. Only your bf can tell you if it's reall true about him. I suggest you ask him right away, and if he confirms it, find another bf. Preferablly one who dosen't belong to a fraternitiy.
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2006-12-11 16:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to feel sad, to cry, and to grieve the loss of what you thought was a promising relationship. Living well is the best revenge. I suggest you concentrate on learning to weed out the turkeys from the nice guys with whom you have dates. It's not rocket science. There are suggestions that will help. Here's a site you might look at: http://www.boundless.org/2002_2003/departments/beyond_buddies/a0000796.html
2006-12-11 16:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is leave him. That's the right thing to do.
What you really should do is put him in a compromising position by telling him you want to sleep with him while he is handcuffed to the bed. Then leave him sitting there naked and walk make sure that you leave your door open so all your girlfriend can tell him what an *** he is.
2006-12-11 16:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP! all the evidence is there, and if he denys it he better have good explaination, EXtrmly good 1 2!!!! but he probably doesnt move on, there are better, honest, and sweeter guys out there wanting to meet you!
2006-12-11 16:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Poptart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he doesn't really like you, whats the point of going out with him?
2006-12-11 16:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Lauryn♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH Honey.
Confront him, THEN dump him!!!
Protect your heart girl!! Frat boys would most DEFINITELY make that kind of bet!!
Do yourself a favor and ditch his cheeting ***!
2006-12-11 16:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for him to come to my door, and slap his ugly pig face!!
Then I would quitetly shut the door.
No more contact, don't even look his way!
Make sure when you slap his face, you do it hard enough to leave a welt for days!!
2006-12-11 16:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, confront then dump. and get all the other girls to kick his a**
2006-12-11 16:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋