I want to show a girl that I love her and I am there for her.
2006-12-11 08:20:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok... there's a couple different techniques. First, whatever you do, do NOT go for the "really long handshake" because that's just awkward. It works way better if you're standing beside her, and at first your fingertips might touch a bit, that's a good hint. THEN you slide in and make your move. The idea is for your fingers to be at a 90 degree angle with her fingers for that first one, but HOPEFULLY she'll adjust and allow you to interlace your fingers with hers. This may seem awkward at first, as you kinda have to twist your arm a little bit around hers, but trust me, with practice, you'll become a master at it.
2006-12-11 08:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by canadamoose22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right oppurtunity, to find out if she would want to I would simply brush her hand lightly while walking by her, or you could watch a scary movie chances are she will be grabbing your hand by the time the movies over lol.... honestly theres no right or wrong way, if you want to hold her hand just go for it, if the feeling is mutual she will let you know. Guys dont always make the first move....
2006-12-11 08:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by brokenheartedangel82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to man up and go for what you want. There is no "start" to holding hands. You either are or you aren't. Grow a set, grab her by the hand and let her know you're there.
2006-12-11 08:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by jp_pablo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think that the best way to show a girl that you have feelings for her is to ask her to the movies with a bunch of friends. This way it is less acward fo you and the girl. If she turns you down(hopefully wont happen) just remeber that there are other fish in the sea! Hope i have helped
2006-12-11 08:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to make friends and then while talking try to touch her hand accidentally if she looks as if she doesnt want to touched stop. if she look lke she's liking it the go hold her hand. The best thing also is as permission. It flatters a girl more if you ask.
2006-12-11 08:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Raine Ssshhh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go for it. Maybe play with her fingers a little bit with yours just to get her knwoing that you want to hold her hand. Or when your walking just 'accidently' hold her hand. Maybe you should just ask her if she'd like to hold your hand. Some girls like to be asked these kind of things.
2006-12-11 08:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ahould approach her with confidense and then when you feel it is the right time just get close hold her hand. If that doesnt work then just ask. the worst that could happen is that she says no and if something other than that happens then she wasnt ment for you anyways.
2006-12-11 08:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by billy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are, and who the girl is...if shes your friend then you should hold her hands first by trying to warm them up for her on a cold day then just keep holding them. if shes your gilfriend, just say you want to. if she loves you back, she'll let you.
2006-12-11 08:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all...coming from a girl's perspective, there's really no "how to"...it's more of a thing you just...do! Personally, I'm one of those that likes to wait until the guy makes the first move...so make the first move!
You'll never know until you try! And, I promise, it's a lot harder to work up the courage to do it than to just suck it up and do it!
Seriously, what's the worst that's going to happen? :)
Good luck!!!!!
2006-12-11 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mookie! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your about to same things sweet to her, your gently grab her hands, look her in the eyes, and say I just want you to know you mean a lot to me, and then continue handing her hand. (don't let go)
2006-12-11 08:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋