My friend has been involved(sexually, she lost her vcard to him) with this guy for a few months now. Yet during this timeframe he has not asked her out yet. He rarely calls her..and its like she has to talk to him about talking more, which he has attempted to do to a degree. Yet he was the cause of her leaving her first relationship because she cheated with him.( in other words, while she was dating Guy 1, he was pushing up on her). It has been like 3 months, and as far as I sesen and what she has told me it has been more of a sexual relationship. She has brought up the dating issue up to him before, and he has told her "I want to be with you, but i dont want to be in a relationship". He also told her when he came off to school all he wanted to do was cake up. I mean he constantly says he can see it long term..etc. Recently the issuewas brought up again, and he told her the same thing.. and he also added that he wanted to respect her exboyfriend. Does he want to be with her or not?
2006-12-11 08:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by anunya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he doesnt. He is using her for sex, and telling her what she needs to hear to keep getting it.
From personal expierence, she needs to get away from him, fast.
2006-12-11 08:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, tell your friend he is just using her. Losing her virginity to this guy is really careless and stupid.
Im guessing that he may feel guilty about splitting up her previous relationship and is trying not to be emotionally connected. Also he may just like her as a friend that gives out. Not someone he wants as a life partner even if they do plan on a long relationship.
Basically it can go down like
-she dumps him
-he dumps her
- he accepts her and they move on in their relationship.
But really, if it is mainly sexual with him, he is just using her as some form of pacifyer.
2006-12-11 08:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he does not want to be with her. your friend can make all the excuses in the world for him, but bottom line is that if he wanted to be with her, he would move heaven and earth to do it. he is only after the sex.
2006-12-11 08:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by cierrasun61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-11 08:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUUHH NOPE USING HER FOR A PIECE OF EASY ***!!!!!
2006-12-11 08:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by charlieangelwannabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋