so i have been in this current relationship for roughly 2 years. throughout these years my boyfriend has not had a cell phone due to lack of funds, but i did. Everytime we were together he would get mad at me for downloading things or txting ppl while we were together. Which i totally understand b/c its rude. but we just got on a plan together, so he now has a phone and he wont put it down. He downloads everything,,,is always txting when im trying to spend qualitity time together, and instead of talking to me while we are together he sends me instant messages or txt messages or email. Its driving me crazy. Today i couldnt handle it anymore so i blew up. And told him he was a hypocrite and was and idiot for having his double standards. Then he threatened to cancel my plan. wtf. what do i do. let him cancel it or do i just keep my mouth shut and let him make all the double standards he wants?
2006-12-11 08:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by raelynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the plans not in his name its in his fathers name, because i just turned 18 and i have no credit. So its not like he can cancel it anyways...as soon as he said it u can tell he regretted it too. so i just ignore him for a while til he apologizes?
2006-12-11 08:17:11 · update #1
if it is like that. get rid of him all together. he has no right to have a double standard. somtimes it is not all about the guy, get a new one. that is what I do when they act up
2006-12-11 08:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by cinnamon43212002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fighting over a cell phone??? One lesson I have learned in life is that you pick your battles and if its something stupid then its not worth fighting over. It sounds like he is being childish and both of you need to put your cell phones down and spend time together. This really isn't worth fighting over. And as far as double standards go, you dont have to be with someone like that. There are plenty of guys who don't play those kinds of games. I would make him aware of that!
2006-12-11 08:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is going to be strange for a month or extra. See in case you will get faraway from any challenge you the two would be in. flow flow to yet another church, heck that's a solid theory to try this besides. it somewhat is going to broden your religious circle. After a while it is going to calm down. If he can discover yet another female quickly this could help you out alot. yet to maintain the peach merely grit and undergo it. style of like once you have an stressful youthful brother or cousin, in case you reside at your social scene and he is going to be there too you're able to desire to be the bigger individual and attempt and manage it. help him detect a female and or do no longer provide him any particular interest. manage him with admire even with the undeniable fact that merely like each and every physique else. In time it gets extra beneficial.
2016-12-30 06:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by devoss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT let him make all the dobule standards no you gotta call him out and MAKE him listen grab his phone away from him when you with him then youll get his attention and explain how your feeling and the issues..dont keep your mouth shut youve gotta be honest with him thats insane he'll keep doing it and itll be a h orrible relationship he sounds like an a**
2006-12-11 08:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him cancell it. if you can get youre own phone next he will be telling you who you can call and text. dont play the double standard game get youre own phone.
2006-12-11 08:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him fine then cancel it any you will get your own independant plan and he can do the same. then i would tell him that if he wants to text then do it when your not with him and tell him to grow up and stop being a boy for crying out loud!!
2006-12-11 08:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just let him cancel the plan and get yourself a new one on your own?
2006-12-11 08:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get your own plan. When you see him on the phone, follow suit and show him what its like to be ignored.
2006-12-11 08:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by SassySister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself honey! Get back on your own plan and tell him to pizz off!
2006-12-11 08:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is your false for let him do so.
Just get rid of that loser is not like you love him at less doesn't sound like it.
2006-12-11 08:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋