women talk about past relationships? even if she's saying how wrong the guy did her?
2006-12-11 08:06:52 · 21 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES
2006-12-11 08:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Old School 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not an adult man but I think it's a turn off when a guy talks about his past relationships or people he has had sexual relations with in the past. It's always best to leave out the details. What happened in the past doesn't matter now.
2006-12-11 16:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah cause instead of focusing on the guy you are with you keep talking about the past which translates into no future, a guy may know you were done wrong but he wants to know what he is doing right if you talk about the past always sneak in a comparison on how he is better and you enjoy that then it becomes a confidence booster and a bonding conversation
2006-12-11 16:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by jeremiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very good question..
1) The best forecast of current and future behavior is past behavior.. I very much want to know about past relationships.
- I'm looking for her part in them...
2) It takes two to make a relationship work or not work and each partner has a part and a history.
2006-12-11 16:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. Everybody talks about their past relationships to some extent. But don't over do it. Men don't like to hear it all the time, just like women never want to hear about their guy's past.
2006-12-11 16:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. Its OK to talk about, but make it BRIEF and move on with the conversation. Dont dwell in the past with someone you want to make the future with..
2006-12-11 16:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the short run, yes, it usually is. But knowing later on, when it isn't being talked about, can be comforting.
2006-12-11 16:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly its comparable to how many men you been with. Not as bad but the same ball park.
2006-12-11 16:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. We don't want to hear of your past with other guys.. we would like to hear about what's going on now..
2006-12-11 16:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only insecure guys are offended when women talk about past relationships.
2006-12-11 16:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by mm 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if i think i can gain better knowledge of the girl from it i might tolerate the conversation. but other than that if she's just talking about it......don't want to hear it.
2006-12-11 16:15:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋