Although I am black, my parents would filp out if I brought home a colored boy to dinner. For some reason they look at that as almost "interracial" dating. They want me to be with a white or asian guy. What should I do? He's nice and he has a job.
2006-12-11 08:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to have his skin bleeched.
2006-12-11 09:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, then you should have the right to date whomever you wish. Just don't take him home to your parents until you're absolutely sure that your relationship is strong enough to endure criticism from your parents. Granted, most people prefer to appease their parents and family, but you have to make sure that you are happy first. It might pay to ask your parents why they feel the way that they do. Understanding their position may make it easier for you to discuss with them how you feel about the guy you're dating. If they know the good things about him, then maybe they'll be more accepting of him when you do bring him home for a visit.
2006-12-11 16:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by S D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur black? I am really confused. And did u say colored? Do whatever feels right. Date whoever makes you happy. And for the love of God don't say colored any more!
2006-12-11 16:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Prettycutetk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really confused. you are black and they do not want you to bring a black guy to dinner. Are you adopted by white peopleor something! you have to clarify more! anyway, if you like him. who cares what other people think including your parents
2006-12-11 16:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by cinnamon43212002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what they think about his skin color. If he is good to you and cares for you bring him home and tell them that he is good to you and cares fro you. That's all any parent should want for their kids.
2006-12-11 16:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋