i need help asking a girls out but i need to know how to get to know her first
2006-12-11 08:04:36 · 23 answers · asked by Master Joker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's important, getting to know her first, you have to talk to her and find out if you two are suited for each other, taking is the only way
2006-12-11 08:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by carol s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret point is to first be friends with her.Let her understand that you wish to be her friend showing no signs that you are interested in her.Reasons being that when you are friends first you get to learn and know more about each other as opposed to when you are in a relationship so fast.many at times when people break up from relationships they do fail becoz they didnt get to know each other so well in the first place.After making friends with her get to share both of you your likes and dislikes,have fun toghether but have some company to avoid temps.And make sure you show her the respect she deserves and you will receive the same from her and hopefully she will get to like you and get to be with you in that nice place that you will be taking her out.Avoid the peer pressure just do what you fee is right and you are content in doing.Be Yourself..Let the Media poison your minds..
Thank you and i wish you well..Take care.
2006-12-11 08:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by PopularOne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF!!!
Do not try to act "cool" or sophisticated, or brainy, or anything else. Chances are, the girl already knows a bit about you, and will know if you start acting different to try to impress her. She will think it's lame and laugh at you.
How to get to know her? Say "Hi, My name is *whatever,* don't you sit in front of me in *whatever* class?" Then you can follow it with something related to that class...a question about the homework, or something funny or stupid the teacher said or did.
See if she has any stickers or doodles on her book covers with the names of bands or actors/actresses. You can say you like them too, or ask a question about them. Be careful! Try not to say you think a particular actress is pretty...the girl will think you are comparing her to the actress, and feel like you think she is ugly. It's not true or you wouldn't be interested in this girl, but that's how girls think sometimes. If the actress has been in a comedy (like Raven-Symone) then you can say 'yeah, I think she's funny too."
DON'T LIE!! If you don't like the same band/actor/actress and you say you do like them, the girl will find out eventually, and hate you forever. She won't be able to trust another thing you say.
Once you can talk to her comfortably about school stuff, mention some place you like to hang out after school, and see if she goes there too, or will tell you where she does hang out. If she tells you, it's probably a sign that she's interested. If she isn't, she'll go out of her way to avoid telling you.
Good luck!!
2006-12-11 08:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by devil_bunny_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her friends, its the easiest thing a guy could do. go to her friends find out what she's into and then start takign to her about similar interest. find an excuse and you'll be able to go from there. to ask a girl out, don't a combo of shy yet confident. it's cute when you're a little nervous, but 2 much is just pitiful. take her away from everyone else and ask her face to face. never do it by note or email or text. the smae goes for break ups.good luck
2006-12-11 08:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared just be confident trust me a girl like nothing more then a confident guy not a big head then she'll think ur an idiot, dont act like a perve and jump on her unless she like that or shes a hoe then that ok but always remember theres two girls to every one man in the world so u will get a girl, its the girls that should be fighting for the men...
2006-12-11 08:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her start a conversation. Don't let her know your interested romantically at first. Try to get to know a little about her personality before asking her out on a date. If you find out that you don't like her personality then she never has to know that you wanted more before to found out she was a nutt or self centered.
2006-12-11 08:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about other women, but all you'd have to do is come at me with some respect and a down to earth attitude. A simple "Hi, how are you?" to start will be enough to spark a conversation or maybe even friendship.
2006-12-11 08:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret is ............ confidence.
Using your new found confidence, you can do the following.
-Say Hello
-Strike up a conversation about something that is happening around you.
-Introduce yourself and ask her name.
-Most Important-Ask for her number, (Say you'd like to meet for a coffee or whatever)
Good Luck
2006-12-11 08:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to appraoch her or get to know her? Approaching is easy you just walk up and there you are...or you sneak up...or just tackle her....
Just remember, only the first one works if you want to get to know her 'cause the other two will get you labled as a stalker or land you in jail for battery!
2006-12-11 08:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as confident as you can be, please have at least a little backbone. Be nice, but don't be a pushover. My whole thing is that apparently I'm hilarious, I guess I'm funny sometimes. Most girls, just make a joke and make them feel comfortable with you, but always keep a little tension there.
2006-12-11 08:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋