There is this guy I have feelings for. A week ago he called me and told me he loved me and that he didn't want to be with anybody else. He had a couple of drinks before this at a friend's bachelor party. I talked to him later on and he said he couldn't talk about it. He is the type of guy that can be affectionate but doesn't like to express his feelings verbally. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel?
2006-12-11 08:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should tell him how you feel, anyway I call alcohol the truth serum, because when my friends drink and I drink the truth about feelings comes out. He probably has feelings for you too.
My fiance was drunk the 1st time that he told he that he loved me, and before that I didn't know that he had "feelings" for me. I loved him too - and now 2 yrs later we are planning a wedding.
2006-12-11 08:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. You may not like this, but if he's had drinks at a bachelor's party, he was probably half lit. If he has to be drinking to tell someone how he feels, and he has trouble expressing his feelings when he's sober, I'd think twice before staying with
him. If he said later that he couldn't talk about it, that may
be because he's had time to sober up and think about what
he said.
2006-12-11 16:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by ladyravenwing2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him. And just to remind you, you tell the truth when you've been drinking, so obviously he likes you. Maybe once you guys start dating he will be able to tell you how he feels.
2006-12-11 16:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by DawnC36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants.
Do you really want to get involved w/ someone who can't be honest/sincere w/ you in the beginning?
What would that be asking for later on??
Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-11 16:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Josi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind him of what he said to you. if he remembers then tell him the feelings are mutual. or you can just tell him you have feelings for him and see his response. if you don't say something s good thing could be lost in your silence.
2006-12-11 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave him hanging too long! He might leave then you will missed a great opportunity to see if this is the real thing.
Go for it!
2006-12-11 16:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-11 16:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by EJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him how you feel. If you don't, you will end up regretting it.
2006-12-11 16:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you like him tell him
he told you he likes you
2006-12-11 16:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK I'D JUST LET IT GO UNTIL HE SAYS SOMETHING, AFTER ALL HE WAS DRINKING.
2006-12-11 16:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋