Hey, will someone please cheer me up. im bored, and fed up. i dunno why, just am. Well, i kno why; i have the worst bad luck ever, it always happens to me, wich sucks, my mates always seem to let me down, and i luv em 2 bits, but sometimes it rlly anoys me. and im 17 and stil single, which sucks even more, i know i shouldnt care about stuff like that. but its annoying, ive never really had a seriuos boyfriend. my friedn say i should be fine single, but at times it annoys me,
cheer me up people!!
2006-12-11 08:00:53 · 25 answers · asked by Milky Mindless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre still young, believe me i have that bad luck also. i couldnt score a date if everything i touched turned to gold and im 19. but im not really giving up yet. well i am for now, but you shouldnt quit, cuz you might not find that guy right now, but he is out there, somewhere, waiting for you. but if you need somebody to talk to it about feel free to discuss it with me. my im is cubno1fan
2006-12-11 08:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
In reality, none of us out here can cheer you up, it has to come from inside you or it will never happen. All we can do is to redirect your thought process to cause you to cheer yourself up inside.
Where I am going with this. You are what you think you are, and the way you see and hold things in your mind is what you will indeed attract into your life. It is like a computer, garbage in . . . .garbage out. Good things in . . . .good things out.
Your subconscious mind is like a very powerful, obedient child, it cannot tell the difference between a real event and an imagined event.
So when you see yourself and hold an image of you being unlucky, bored, fed up, you dunno, it sucks, you are always let down, . . . .that is exactly what you can look forward to in the future, because that is exactly what you are causing to happen.
Try some brain writing. Take a piece of paper and pen and write 10 times, " I am a good person and deserve good things in my life" and then try another saying and repeat the writing it down.
Bottom line is when you start seeing yourself as the way you want to be, that is when it will manifest into reality mode.
Have a very Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year,
Darryl S.
2006-12-11 16:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, dont worry about guys right now. I recommend that you worry about finishing high school, going to college and living up the single life because once you're tyed down to some guy you will never be able to party like a single girl again. I say when you turn 18 and graduate go to university out of your hometown, get your own apartment, a job and find some awesome clubs, live life, then worry about finding a man.
2006-12-11 16:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might cheer u up im 34, single got celulite on my thighs my boobs have started to sag a little , may be that why im still single and probably the reason i only seem to attrach fat bald men or men who resemble some man from zz top
2006-12-11 16:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17, you have plenty of time to find a boyfreind. You shouldnt be in a serious relationship right now, just date around hand with freinds and have a blast. 10 years from now you'll be wishing you were 17 again.
2006-12-11 16:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by trrcrm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that's all Ur gonna get at Ur age. your young I bet there is a rele nice guy gonna come your way give it a few yrs. ur better of learning who the *** holes are out there. I have went through so many girlfriends and none of them lasted all that long. just let time bring u into a good relationship so for now just stay single.
2006-12-11 16:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by niceguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, I'm 23 and single, I have a mate whose 27 and never been remotely close to losing his single status. There is plenty of time for all that.
Not sure how cheery that is though...
2006-12-11 16:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from a lack of self esteem. And your spelling lacks everything!
When you learn to write correct English, suddenly a Prince Charming will come from England and then your "friedn" will no longer be deep fried!
2006-12-11 16:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya,Im 49,came out of a violent marriage about 7 years ago,and am still on my own.Am still seeking Mr Right if there is such a thing.God,wish I was 17 again and had the world at my feet.
Get a grip girl......the world is your oyster......get on with it and go for it!
2006-12-11 16:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to jokeroo.com. Funny.
17 and still single boo hoo. Welcome to the club. Most of us have been there and it's not a big deal.
We are all lonely. Normal for humans. We crave attention and love and affection. Just hang with your friends and be a nice person - more niceness will come back to you (eventually).
2006-12-11 16:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋