I have been going out with my gf for almost 2 years. She is a wonderful woman and I like her a lot. We don't argument too much. When there were problems, we talk it out really and it get resolved shortly.
The only problem I have with her is her family. Other than her mom, the rest of the family are mess up. Her father, who think he is the king because he pay for the rent. Always complaints and would not do anything to help out the family. Her older sister, who is married, and treat her own family (not her husband and his family) like second class citizens, or should I use slavery. Her younger bro, who is a copy of the father, the different is he sit at home playing computer games all day and does not respond to anything. The only time you see him out of the room is for food and for the bathroom.
I ignored them most of the time. But when I have to deal with them, I get into a fight w/ gf. I have consider breaking up but don't think it's worth it. I need help on this.
2006-12-11 07:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by cb123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Accept her family for who they are and realize that she's a product of her parents, just like you. To put up with her family for a short amount of time is not much to ask for. She'll appreciate your loyalty to her.
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2016-12-18 11:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely don't break up with your gf for that. It's an important thing, but family isin't everything, especially since it's not yours. It should not come between you two. Since you talk everything through, you must have talk to her about his and how much trouble you have with this situation. Either try seing the in-laws as less as possible or when you do, just don't get worked up with the things that bother you. After all, it's not them you love but her... even more since you have to put up with that! And she shouldn't lose you because of her family, that would be really sad. The best way is to stay out of any kind of interaction with them. Even if you have to play dumb with them... at least you'll have your gf. The in-laws surely don't even diserve your concerns and your energies. Concentrate on keeping your couple healthy. Hope this could help a little... good luck anyhow!
2006-12-11 08:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since you have been dating her for 2 years, there must be something there. Why not get a place of your own and you and her live there and make sure it is not just around the block from them.
2006-12-11 08:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you love your girlfriend, you just kind of have to deal with the family that comes along with her. You don't have to live with them and don't have to like them, but you do have to bite your tongue sometimes when it comes to them. I hate hate hate my husbands family but it IS his family not my disfunctional family ha so everytime we're around them (which isn't so often because I don't usually visit with him) I just don't say much. I love my husband to death thought. Anyways~~point being if you love her good always comes with the bad nothing in life is going to be perfect GOOD LUCK :)
2006-12-11 08:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by ajboxx04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love your gf and she loves you, then there is no need to break up. When she visits her family have her to go w/out you. If she doesn't want to do that then limit your visits and the time you spend w/ her family.
2006-12-11 08:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yea the familiy will be werid, my gf has 6 brother all do druges and most of them in jail her mother didn't want her and her father died. it HARD but just make friends with her friends and i would hang with her brother take him to a convention or something he like try to get him in the real world or something that he likes.
2006-12-11 08:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If they aren't bothering you, then why are you letting this come between you and your GF. Fight about something worth while not this.
2006-12-11 08:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move out and get your own place
2006-12-11 10:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the parents are pest don't worry true love withstands all.
2006-12-11 08:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋