i found an old flame and i have developed feelings for him. i asked him today not to let me run him off, or scare him off he said visa versa, how in the world can this man be told i have fallen in love with him just by reuniting with him. i really want him to know
2006-12-11 07:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell him right away. Stay in touch and save up money to visit him. Sometimes you find out the joy of finding each other felt like love, but once you get to know him better you might find out you aren't really in love. Love takes time to blossom and take hold. Give this relationship time. Then, if you still feel the same way, tell him you love him. But, if you tell him now, you will scare him off for sure.
2006-12-11 08:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) "run off" "scare off" ??? and you guys are how old???
- Well, just how long have you both been single???
2) Experienced singles don't let feelings get in the way of life progress.
3) So, you're in love eh... And just what's not o.k. with telling him?
- Best policy is honesty... period. If the other party can't handle it then better to find out now than later..
2006-12-11 16:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your heart! As the old proverb says" Better regret from a thing you DID , than regret from a thing you did NOT do"! he knows you , he will understand and will think about in a SERIOUS way! Good Luck!
2006-12-11 17:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mikila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The details are confusing.
FOUND HIM? you were together in person? spent time together?
ASKED HIM TODAY? by phone or what? email
FALLEN IN LOVE? after what? talking or meeting or spending some time together?
REUNITING? how? and how long -- in person?
2006-12-11 16:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋