i.,ve been dating my b/f for a little over a month now,things have been going great,hes a good guy to me so i really have no complaints.recently hes started asking about us becoming intimate. i think its too soon.what do you guys think?
2006-12-11 07:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything until you're ready. If he loves you, he will wait until you are ready to take it to another level.
2006-12-11 07:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, he's making just another step into this relationship.. If (and just if) you feel confident about this, just keep going. Anyway if you are't sure, just make he wait a little more, all that "intimate" things must occur in a natural way, never forced by one or other side.. You can always talk to him, if he is a nice guy he will understand your point.
2006-12-11 16:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many things, but I'd say wait. WHY? Because you're unsure enough about it to not feel comfortable making your own decision. So I'd say it's best to wait until YOU are comfortable. It's a decision to be made by BOTH of you when BOTH of you want to. Sounds like it's one sided right now.
And who knows, maybe in a week you'll have forgotten about all the useless answers we'll give you and you'll decide you're ready. Of course, maybe you'll find out that's all he wants from you and it'll be time to move on.
2006-12-11 16:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by l'il one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think its too soon.... than its too soon. Go by what you think.. forgot what other ppl think..your the one in the relationship not them. Just dont rush it and dont let anyone rush you to get more intimate. And if your bf cant accept that.... than maybe ur with the wrong guy.
2006-12-11 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by linds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: If you feel like it's too soon, then it's too soon. But you're the only one who can make that call.
2006-12-11 15:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by yumyum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you ant ready than don't make it clear.
2006-12-11 16:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not ready, then dont.
2006-12-11 15:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-12-11 15:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋