A Guy asks a girl out and her reply was "she jus wants to be friends at the moment", the guy still has a feelings for her after a month has passed by, should he give it another shot??? or its stupid and its a lost cause??
2006-12-11 07:50:49 · 17 answers · asked by PRINCE24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
What part of her just wanting to be friends at the moment, did the guy not understand.
I do not want to rain on your parade, but she, in a nice way, was telling ( you ). . . . . . . . .she is not interested, as she left no other options. Do you get the picture?
That's the way a girl will operate, she did not want to hurt your feelings.
Time to move on Bubba,
Darryl S
2006-12-11 08:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you give more thought as to why she told you she wanted to be friends instead. Is she dating someone else? If so, you definitely need to hold back. If not, I suggest you get more specifics from her....ask if she is afraid of losing the friendship if the two of you should start dating (that would be a legitimate concern). You have to appreciate her honesty though--she may really just want to be friends. Friendships are impt. too. Good Luck
2006-12-11 15:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by no means is it a lost cause, she might want to get to know you and trust you first before going out. give it a little time, if you try after a month, she'll think ur impatient, the best relationships are the ones that are developed after taking time.
2006-12-11 15:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check it out....give it another shot. If she still wants to be "friends" than move on... there is someone else out there....and realize its her loss..... But only ask her again this ONE time... you dont want to come off as some obsessive guy....
2006-12-11 15:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by linds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only say that to a guy if i'm not interested in him, and if i don't think hes cute/hot. Maybe shes not single right now and if she is ask someone else out.
2006-12-11 15:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it another chance, and ask again if she says no don't stress maybe she likes you and doesn't want to be obvious
2006-12-11 15:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by cutiedownlow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time trying to persue any girl that tells you she just wants to be friends. It is a nice way for a girl to tell you that she is not attracted to you.
2006-12-11 15:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lost cause. Find someone who will say yes
2006-12-11 15:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with being friends, it anything else is there then it will evolve naturally out of friendship, if not, you still have a great friend! good luck xxx
2006-12-11 15:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by rattyfraggs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give it another shot only if you think that she likes you now but you still might want to give it another shot.anyway good luck.i wish u the best! :)
2006-12-11 15:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋