My girlfriend has put on a few pounds since last year and to be quite frank I dont fancy her at all(she is quite rotund)She was never a "slim" girl but she really has piled it on recently she would now fit(just) into the category of obese borderline morbidly, I love her to bits and dont want to make her cry.......
so how do I go about telling her I want to sleep with her skinny sister?
2006-12-11 07:48:50 · 21 answers · asked by t00t5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your a scumbag from hell!
Her weight gain is probably due to birthcontrol so she won't have one of your ugly offspring!
You will rot where your mind leads you.
2006-12-11 07:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not. which would be undesirable for her. possibly she has gained weight because of the fact she is feeling depressed (in all likelihood because of the fact she feels which you at the instant are not fascinated in her). in case you nonetheless look after her, and the relationship yet are purely not bodily fascinated in her, advise some thing relaxing and actual to do togehter. attempt suggesting a walk by using a park, or a bike experience. it may well be a lovable date in case you propose properly. yet once you're purely fed up, then injury up together with her, gently. tell her you do not experience love that's understanding. do not tell her she's fat, or unattractive. that's terrible. And stay far off from her sister. that is undesirable variety.
2016-10-18 03:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what??? how can you say you love her so much if you care about how many pounds she has gained and want to sleep with her skinny sister that is just so disrespectful obviously you don't love her that much because you wouldn't be on her asking those question maybe you should just let her go and let her find a better man than you that really does love her no matter what she looks like
2006-12-11 07:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the skinny sister is off limits....that's a given!!!
I would suggest encouraging her to work out WITH you, or go for walks, and have more sex....That may sound stupid but it burns calories!
Don't be rude to her or make a big issue out of her weight. No one WANTS to be big, but it's hard to lose weight without good support from the ones you love.
2006-12-11 07:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's a very sensitive subject to talk about.
Encourage her for a diet, and tell her you would work out with her as well. Tell her you love her very much, and worried about her.
If that doesn't work, tell her "infact, I really like you to be back in your old size. I don't want to hurt you, but I'm going to be honest cuz I love you."
This should really work...if my man starts this line, I'll seriously cut my chocolates.
2006-12-11 07:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude are you that superficial to judge her only by her weight?
As long as she is healthy thats all that matters if this extra weight is hindering her health wise then you should talk to her about losing weight only for her health and no other reason.
YOu say you love her, well i don't believe that if you want to sleep with her sister!!!
Man guys like you make me dislike my kind...I hope she realizes she is better off without you and I hope her sister rejects you too!!!
2006-12-11 10:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and tell her honey i love u and everything but u need to lose a bite a pound i am worry for your health and don't want u to be sick so how about we go and run tomorrow or something would u like to do that.
2006-12-11 07:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you are seriouse about this then you do not love her to bits at all, and you should just break up with her because you are a birt bag and if you really loved her her size wouldnt matter to you. But oyu should just tell her the truth about the whole sister thing so she can break up with you.....
2006-12-11 07:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u want to sleep with her skinny sister?
she's not the one...just leave her now and don't don't tell her it's because ur a perv that wants her skinny sister. if she were the one....ud know how to tell her and it would be for her own benefit not yours....either way if u really loved her you would love and accept all of her.
2006-12-11 07:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...DON'T!!! Break it off with her first if you really want to sleep with her sister, either that or start a healthy eating/exercise plan for the both of you so she loses weight!
2006-12-11 07:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say how about if we went on a diet together and start exercising? Be supportive and encouraging and help cause it's not easy to lose weight. She'll know that you care.
2006-12-11 07:54:28 · answer #11 · answered by Mah10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋