I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:
"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???
If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???
Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???
For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.
Would this be ok??OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin?? She appreciate it?
2006-12-11 07:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We’ve not spoken for over a week (which is a long time for us).Will we EVER SPEAK AGAIN OR IS THIS THE END???Has she had enough of me???
MORE INFO:
We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.
2006-12-11 07:48:38 · update #1
She's scared of commitment, plain and simple. Never ask a girl to like you, kiss, flirt, make love to But never say, should we be boyfriend/girlfriend?
2006-12-11 08:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're analysing WAY too much and you're obsessed. She's probably picking up on that. You sound a bit desparate - big turn off. Chill out and go with the flow, enjoy her company when you see her as friends. If it's meant to be, it will be but there's no guarantees. See what happens.
2006-12-11 07:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You jus don get it do you. She's not interested and is just your friend. You may wanna keep the teddy for now. A card will do - for a friend its usually adequate. Otherwise you will end up with no friend at all.
2006-12-11 07:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a NO.
she'll start talking to you again just to appear polite and then end your friendship after a while when the two events can appear unconnected.
just to prove to herself shes a nice person really - and to avoid conflict.
2006-12-11 07:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋