I really like this girl, hell of a lot more than any girl I've liked before. We've been off and on for the past year or two. Frankly, it's getting on my last nerve - I'm beginning to lose faith in her, she changes boyfriends like she changes clothes. I asked her out Friday, and we've been together since. Some freak asked her out today, and she replied with a "Yes." At least that's what she told ME; later today at the buses, she and her friend told me it was a harmless joke. We kissed goodbye, though it didn't feel right, it wasn't the overall goody goody feeling I had when our lips touched. I want to believe, I want to think everything's alright, and I know I should; however, what if it isn't a joke? What if she's using me, she's broke my heart too many times to count. I can't even bear the thought of losing her; then again, I'm just completely lost. Either way, it seems there's something to lose in BOTH cases. What should I do? Please help me.
2006-12-11 07:45:22 · 11 answers · asked by usherman02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer is simple she is not ready to be steady, cut her out immediately no more contact, its going to hurt and badly ur going to feel a loss like you wouldn't believe, but this is how it has to go. two things will happen she is going to try and throw things at you to get you back cause you are her doormat and safety net and then she is going to try and hurt cause you got to her and took the power away. she is not ready for a relationship and obviously u are to nice for her she wants bad boys and flings. you are on different levels but she knows how to play you, if you cut her out she no longer has power over you and when you see her outside of the rose colored glasses you will see that what you thought you saw and felt for her was nothing more than a projection of what you thought about her and you will be better off and free to pursue a happy healthy relationship.
2006-12-11 07:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by jeremiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes using you. You re a needy guy and she knows it, so shes taking advantage. Forget about her, get yourself a gf that respects you instead of toying with you.
And the most important: LEARN THE GAME
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2006-12-11 15:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a hobby. Climb a tree. Get another girlfriend. Go shopping. Take a nap. Got me?
2006-12-11 15:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Double O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool,when she phones you don't answer,when she wants to spend time with you tell her your busy.By the sounds of it this is the only way that your going to get through to her.After all your a human being with feelings not a door mat!!!!!
2006-12-11 15:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of your friends that shes never meet to hit on her ask her out or something if she goes to far he'll let you know but shes broken your heart before drop her on her *** now! If your a nice guy and never have you done n-e thing to hurt her than she dont deserve you.
2006-12-11 15:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Squeakums 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her. she is sending you mixed signals and does not want to be in a 1 on 1 relationship
2006-12-11 15:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a sucker for luv idiot her and her friends got the gameballs from all the sunday football games. find you someone else.
2006-12-11 15:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should sit down and talk to her, tell her how you feel and if she continues then you gotta break it loose becauyse all shes going to do it play with your heart and your going to keep on getting hurt
2006-12-11 15:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Michi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just try to sit down and talk to hurr en ask hurr to pls teo u dah truth. then if u think u should beleive hurr or not, its up too u. do wat ure hart teos u too. trust meh, ive bin thurr en done dat.
2006-12-11 15:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by 67 GuRl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful and make sure you are not being used.
2006-12-11 15:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋