he put his finger in me and a pen too. we are the same age, so was it wrong and i need to tell my mom or should i keep it to myself. i didnt like it and this christmas we will share a room again. should i just sleep with my grandma and grandpa. if i ask to sleep with my mom she will ask questions. also my cousin acts like nothing happened. i dont want to tll my mom she cries easy and worries a lot since my dad left.
2006-12-11 07:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really think you should tell your Mom. It is better to upset her a little but get her help than keep quiet and have to deal with your cousin's inappropriate behavior, especially since you didn't like it.
It is called 'sexual abuse' whenever anybody touches you like that and you don't really want to.
If you keep it quiet, it has a big chance of getting worse.
You need help. You need somone you can trust, and your Mom is it.
She may get a little upset, but she will be there to help you.
That's what Mom's are for.
You can tell her that this happened and that you weren't really hurt, that you're OK, but that you don't want this to happen again.
She will understand.
If you really think that your Mom can't handle this, talk to your Grandma.
Anyway, you really need to talk to SOMEBODY about this and get the support you need and deserve.
2006-12-11 07:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by flywho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to your mom and tell her what happened. What your cousin did to you was very wrong and gross. Nobody should ever touch you. Don't sleep in the same room with him either. I hope you talk to her as soon as possible. Good luck!
2006-12-11 15:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by helpmom26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell your Mom. Your cousin shouldn't ever touch you. Don't try to keep it to yourself, you could end up sometime having to be alone with your cousin again if your Mom doesn't know & you don't know what your cousin might try to do next time. Also, your cousin might do it to someone else, he shouldn't be allowed to get away with doing things like this. Your Mom might get upset if you tell her, but she would much rather you tell her so she can protect you. It is a parents job to stop things like this from happening to their kids. Please tell your Mom. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-11 21:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it must be difficult dealing with this issue but what your cousin did to you was wrong and your mother NEEDS to know what he did!! He has NO RIGHT to touch you in ANY way that makes you feel uncomfortable!! If you're afraid to tell your mom, tell a responsible adult who can tell you mother for you!! But don't be fearful of what will happen because he has to know that he is wrong!!
2006-12-11 21:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by chokolatechic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom hun. my sister went for five years with out telling anyone about her being sexually abused and now everything is tied up in court. dont let your cousin get away with being inappropriate. its wrong and you need to do something about it. speak up. your worth more then that. do the right thing.
2006-12-11 16:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!That is gross and abuse.I'm pretty sure this will hurt your mom,but you do not need to keep this from them hun.
2006-12-11 16:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwwwwwwww, u should tell her, i mean he is ur cousin and dat iz just plain wrong
2006-12-11 20:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dixie grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its wrong and sick if he put it in your vagina i would kick his butt
2006-12-11 15:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 15:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by fallenangelf99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋