I really like him and we have had sex a couple of times. His wife treats him like crap, and doesnt respect him. What should I do?
2006-12-11 07:42:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are only hearing one side of the story. He maybe unhappy in his marriage right now, but that is not a good reason for cheating. It won't end well for anyone involved. If you care about this man, end it and suggest he get some counseling to heal what is wrong with his marriage. If you continue this relationship, it will change who you are and not for the better. He can't possibly respect you, if he did he wouldn't ask you to play second fiddle. Love is based on mutual trust and commitment, no matter what happens with his marriage the two of you will never have this. Be strong, put out into the world what you would like to get back from it. Peace!
2006-12-11 07:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Indievoter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from that situation. I was the "other" woman and actually married my lover after he got divorced, now guess what? I don't want him either! That's the stupidest prdictament that I've ever gotten into. And how do you know that the wife is treating him like crap! Is that what HE tells you? Don't fall for that sh!t! MOVE ON!
2006-12-11 07:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and get away from him. The allure of a married man is great, but it never goes anywhere. Married men that cheat always say there wife treats him like crap, but he is treating her like crap by cheating. You have had your fun, but now RUN!
2006-12-11 07:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you that his wife is treating him like dirt? If it's his word...then forget it. Turns out that a majority of married men committing adultery, resort to such falsehood and I must say that there is a high probabilty that this man is doing the same to you. Now that things are getting serious, I'd advise you not to take them any further. Better wrap it up right here. You've enjoyed his companionship - or rather he's enjoyed yours. Unfortunately for you, he's the one returning to HIS WIFE everyday...while you have no one to call your own. Please don't become a commodity to be used and thrown. Get moving. Throw him out of your life. He's seriously not worth it.
Out of the hundreds of sob stories I've heard in my life - only two were true. First get that kind of experience behind you -and only then try to go in for such relationships when you can verify their authenticity.
2006-12-11 07:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Maverick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away now because "his wife treats him like crap" is no reason to destroy a marriage by getting off with him.
Leave him alone... disappear now and don't date anyone who is married ever again. Think about if you were her.....
Shoe on the other foot doesn't feel too comfy.
2006-12-11 07:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first he is the one that told you that she treat him like crap most married guys say that to other women.,
80 percent of the guys that are married donut leave there wife for another women,
i hope you don't fall for his lies bc he is using you why would you want a guy that is taken there are plenty of guys that are single would you want a man do that to you cheat on you with other women just think about it would you want that to happen to you
2006-12-11 07:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already made your choice, asking for approval here will not change that. You have put yourself in a very difficult position. Will he leave his wife for you, don't know, only he can answer that question. If you care about him, then support him as best you can through this very difficult time.
2006-12-11 07:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tricky. Does he want a divorce? Is there kids involved. Really think about the consequences and who's gonna end up getting hurt.
Are you sure his wife is really that bad, or is this just what he's telling you?
2006-12-11 07:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the whole ordeal. Why? The other spouse usually always finds out about an affair. She will probably confront you either by phone, email, im, or in person when you least expect it!
2006-12-11 07:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you really love the guy walk away now,if you love him tell him how you feel that until its completely over with his wife their ain't going to be any goodies coming from your direction!!!!
2006-12-11 07:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋