My bf is 22 and i am 18 going on 19 and in college like him.Only thing is he goes to another college and lives on campus and i live at home and commute to school and wont be living on my college campus till the end of next year.So i have a curfew a midnight curfew during the week and a 1:00 in the morning curfew on the weekends.My bf however stays out till 3-4 in the morning and is getting bored with me because i cant.He is also a frat guy and other girls pick up his cell phone sometimes when i call?and sometimes fall asleep in his room.
2006-12-11 07:39:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel so sad i really like him
2006-12-11 07:40:03 · update #1
Sorry to inform you, but your boyfriend is screwing with other chicks while you're at home waiting like a good girl.
2006-12-11 07:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, what a waste of your time. Ick. Get rid of him. No one wants a frat guy, and no one needs to be with someone who gets 'bored' with them just because theyre not redily avaible for the beckon call.
And why are you living in a place that imposses a curfew on a grown woman? You're not a child. If your parents feel they have to control you with a curfew because you're unable to make reational decisions when out late, then you're obviously not ready to be an adult.
I'd have a sit down with them. Yes you have to obey the rules of the house, but they surely dont have curfews for eachother as adults. Thats rediculous. Your livign at home, not answering to a parol officer.
2006-12-11 15:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, best thing to do is protect yourself in this situation. Dump him.
You must let him be free. He's 22 and a frat boy - if he's not already cheeting on you, he will eventually.
You've got lots of room left @ college too....you'll meet a nice boy. Let go of the old guy and get yourself some freedom of your own!!
2006-12-11 15:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he is playing games with you. Id do some investigating if I was you. If a girl answers his phone tell them your his girlfriend first and ask who are they? Then ask him whats up with some girl answering his phone.
Surprise visits are nice. Do it when he least expects it and see how he reacts. Tell him how uncomfortable he is making you feel and you want to know the truth. There is no reason for some girl being asleep in his room.
Dont let him play you. You sound like you got a bright future ahead of you and you deserve someone who is not gonna get bored with you and respects you. Sounds like you need to get bored with him. ;)
2006-12-11 15:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out now before he cheats on you and really crushes you because from your description he is not responsible and only cares about himself.
"He is also a frat guy and other girls pick up his cell phone sometimes when i call?and sometimes fall asleep in his room."
Are you really believing that stuff? Drop him like a bad habit.
2006-12-11 15:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah girl, thats exactly what he's looking for. I know it hurts, I had the same thing happen to me when I was about your age, I was totally into this guy, but my parents were too strict. I found out in the end he was just looking for someone who WOULD give him a**, and when he did, he dropped me like a hot potato. It really hurt bc he met my family, did family stuff w us and we'd been together for almost 6 months.
2006-12-11 15:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other girls are answering his phone? And what do you think they do when they are in his room, play cards? You need to get some sense knocked into you girl, the guy is more than likely cheating on you. And remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. I would dump him ASAP if l were you. You deserve better than a guy like that.
2006-12-11 15:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if other girls are answering his phone and they sometimes fall alseep in his room!!!! there should be a red flag right there he is sleeping with someone else while ur at home!!!! u dont need to be with someone like that ur in college and too young to have a bf in college u go out and have fun!!!! u really need to dump him!!! good luck
2006-12-11 15:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a nice guy at the college you attend... Get one that's mature enough to not have a need to belong to a frat... You'll be much happier with less worries...
2006-12-11 15:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by deakjone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My opinion it sounds like he is. he should respect you that your only allowed to stay out so long. Also girls falling asleep in his room gives you a pretty good signal. GET away from him and find someone who can respect you!
2006-12-11 15:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmao, I love ihatehippie's answer. But in honesty, I think you need to move on. I know if I was in your place, I wouldn't trust him if girls are answering his phone and sleeping in his room and whatever else you don't know about. I know it sucks because you like him, but it'll suck worse when you actually catch him cheating on you. Repeatedly. Sorry hun, I think you'd be better off without.
~~Edit Time: sorry, misunderstood. my bad. All fixed now lol
2006-12-11 15:44:28 · answer #11 · answered by 2D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋