my friend is 15 and she has a 2 year old is that really bad...shes a really good mother she has her in nursery school, the kid is smart, beautiful, and talented.is this terribly wrong??
2006-12-11 07:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
No love their's nothing wrong with your friend having a child. She's a good mother RIGHT? So what do you think? I'm 18 with a 14 month old son and the age doesn't make a difference. I love my son the same way a 30 year old loves her son. If she's still going to school then hey is their anything bad about that?
2006-12-11 08:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by marliqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what wrong? Putting her child in nursery school at age two? That does seem a little young, but is the mom back in school herself? If she's just 15, that means she's still a long way from completing high school and if she can manage to raise her daughter and go to school, that's a good thing. Hopefully she has a supportive family, who can help nurture the child and provide a father figure for her, as you don't mention marriage or a father anywhere in the child's life.
It's too bad that the mom got pregnant at 13, because it means she has missed out on her teen years. When you are responsible for a child at that age, you aren't doing the normal teen things of finding out who you are, meeting boys (without sex) and doing all the stuff that teens normally do. But that isn't something that can be regained now. Hindsight is a wonderful teacher, but doesn't change things that have already happened. If your friend is a good mother, all you can do is give her whatever support you can and just be a good friend to her and her daughter.
2006-12-11 07:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there is nothing wrong, 15 is a young age but at least she has been responsible enough to raise her child and try to do her best as a mother. one reason the child may be misbehaving is that when your friend is around others maybe she doesnt want people thinking she is a bad mum because of her age and in turn perhaps doesnt tell her child off for being naughty quite as much as she should do. Or perhaps its just the terrible two's, most children go through a stage of just being a pain for a little while and should grow out of it.
2006-12-12 03:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the baby is taken care of right and has the right guidance to get him/her through life, then i don't think it's a bad thing. But your friend is only 15. So that term, kids having kids definitely comes into play. Not just because of age, but because of mindset as well. It's bad for your friend because she's ruined her life. She's not gonna have a chance to experience all the things teenagers should be experiencing. It's not impossible but will be very hard for her to get and education beyond high school because of this. Therefore she is probably gonna have a very tough life ahead of her and a lot of opportunities that she might have once had are gone. I'm 26 and I have a career in engineering, And I know I'm in no position to have a child yet. Good luck to your friend.
2006-12-11 07:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm wow! 15 and a mother. I'm glad that kids smart and talented, but I'm sure it's not just cause of her mother, there was someone else taking care of that baby's baby, but I'm glad she's turning out good for the situation she's in.
2006-12-11 07:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by jenandybell03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say as long as she loves her child and takes care of her, then there isn't anything wrong here. Now if she was neglectful, abusive, or in any way undeserving to be a mother...well, that's a different story.
2006-12-11 07:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by jjodom1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way your friend can be a good mother at the age of 15. That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard!
2006-12-11 07:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by WREAGLE 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you ask questions like this...you should leave the age out. come on...
if she is 15 and has a two year old. then it is her fault for sleeping around before she stopped holding mommys hand at the grocery store
2006-12-11 07:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by beanie3720 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is obviously doing a good job- the best help she needs is supportive friends who undersatnd and try not to judge. im sure she gets that every time she leaves the house with her baby
2006-12-11 07:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by bow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋