15 yr old and a 21yr old - wrong or not?

Question

my friend recently met a guy on bebo and met him alone. she is 15, he is almost 21. is it just me, or is that just very wrong??

Answer 1

Dangerous! Aaaaaaagh! You to tell your friend to find some guy's here own age then at least they will have something in common.

Answer 2

Yes because it's against the law(if there having sex) but if her parent know about him and are monitoring the relationship to make sure he's not having her do drug or drink or anything I don't think a non-sexual romantic relationship with an other person is wrong because when she turns 18 she just going to do what she want anyway when I was 18 I dated a 29 year old man some of you guy are soo stupid my husband is 5 years older then me and he's not a loser or pedi the first few time I stay the night we didn't even have sex and when we did I started it so grow up there are till man out there with some morals

Answer 3

Wrong as can be. A 15 year old is a minor and this 21 year old knows it and the outcome can only be bad, including legally. I think there's usually a vast behaviorial difference between 15 year olds and 21 year olds, and even if this guy is immature (which is probably true and that makes him even more dangerous), it is a real no-no. She should stick with people with whom she has things in common socially. If she wants older guys, tell her to wait until she is 21 and then a six year difference probably won't matter much.

Answer 4

To met a person alone is not wrong, but if they did something wrong then it matters a lot. Not for the boy but for the girl as she is only 15.
Age difference does not matter for friendship even if the boy is 10 years older than the girl. But here is the case of an immature girl and, before going for any relation the girl should be mature i mean legally she must be 18.
Save her!!

Answer 5

This is not necessarily"wrong" but it is definitely Illegal if they are 'more than just friends' and it is definitely unwise and possibly danerous for your friend. She should NEVER meet anyone alone for the first time. Listen to your 'gut' it seldom steers you wrong. If you are really concerned for your friend, you must tell an adult NOW. If the guy is 'one of the good ones' He will understand the danger for both of them and take steps to see your friend under supervised and safe conditions. Six years is not a big age difference in a few years but WAY too off at 15 and almost 21 Please protect your friend and tell an adult.

Answer 6

depends on the intentions of the 21 year old, everyone deserves a chance but 15 is a minor in most of the world so if they really feel strongly about each other and they are both serious then when 15 becomes 16 it doesnt matter what n e 1 else thinks

Answer 7

Not wrong if they are just friends, unless they are into more serious doing - she is underage. But, frankly speaking, what do they really want from each other, or rather what a 21 see in a 15 now. She has to be more careful.

Answer 8

ur being her friend should tell her how u feel. cause she is going down the wrong road in life. she's not old enough to make such a grown up decision. he's a sick person to take advantage of such a young girl. she not even developed enough to have any sexual contact. she's not ready for a family. tell her she needs to stay young and have fun with friends instead of a relationships with anyone. she will thank u in the long run being honest with her. good luck and get another friend that feels the same to help u talk to her.

Answer 9

yes it so very wrong. if this guy knows how old she is then he could be incredibly dodgy.

have a chat with her and try and make her realise that this is really quite dangerous. But be more supportive than bullyish cos it's likely she will prob think you are just jealous and, at worst this could draw her even closer to this guy.

also it's illegal to have sex under the age of 16 and if he does sleep with her he can be done by the police.

if ever you become really worried then tell her parents but i really think that this is not on if he knows how old she is.

Answer 10

yes it is. and there is a law that says that u can go out with a guy or a girl that is that is 3years older or younger then you and no more. If she wanted to go out with a guy that is 21 and she is only 15 she would have to get her parents permission to go out with him which almost like 98% of them say no. but none the less it is wrong. Oh! and its called statutory rape

Answer 11

First and foremost your friend did a big mistake by putting her self in danger...MEETING THIS MAN ON HER OWN...did she tell you coz where were you? secondly, she is WELL too YOUNG to get with this 21 year old who should know better. She should be very careful trusting anyone she meets on those Internet site. So why don't you talk to her...or next time she meets this guy go along too for her safety.