I broke up with the guy i loved. i told him to go away from me. and now i am supposed to be strong. but its just too hard. how can i get over this?
2006-12-11 07:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Admit the pain...which you're doing. Accept what's real. Acknowledge that it's over and move on into other things that you enjoy.....get out there and meet new friends, make new aquaintances, etc. Enjoy life. Life is too short to cry over one man. There is a man out there that will love you like you need to be loved. Spend some time finding out Who you are and what YOU like or want in a mate. Get your hair and nails done, buy a cute outfit and go on and be YOU. The pain will subside in time. It hurts now but TRUST ME you'll grow from this experience.......just make sure that it's POSITIVE GROWTH!
2006-12-11 07:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Porter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is hard and there is really no easy way to go about getting over it. I found it helpful to keep myself really busy to the point of exhaustion. I also kept busy by surrounding myself with friends and socializing. Time really does heal your heart. You won't ever forget, but you will eventually feel stronger.
2006-12-11 15:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go treat yourself! It's the beginning of a new chapter of your life! Go out with friends without exaggerating too much, drinking is not the solution. Go exercise, take care of yourself, buy new clothes. Create a new and stronger you.
2006-12-11 15:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can do some or all of what the otheres sed but life goes on and in time you will know whar you want but now your a mess [ no drugs booz etc that makes it worse !!!! bin there don it don`t find happy things to do with whom ever!!!!!! GOOD LUCK]
2006-12-11 15:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give it time. Remember:
Only time can heal a broken heart when even life seems out to get you.
2006-12-11 15:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by chato 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your tiem with friends and family. Find other points of interest other than men.
2006-12-11 15:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth did you tell him to go away if you love him!
anyway, take my advice and just cry it out..
call your best friend, and cry as loud as you can.
2006-12-11 15:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Remzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why would you break up with him if you love him? if you think you need him run back to him! maybe its not to late and he still loves you too.. maybe you made a mistake..
2006-12-11 15:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ever can. But just pray for guidance and know that its for the best.
2006-12-11 15:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up with him??? and just drink alot of beer it makes it all better!!
2006-12-11 15:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by cutie with tha bootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋