ok well i like two guys and um ya im gunna tell u about them and ur gunna answer my question mmk?ok well we'll

Question

call one...........C.C. (initials) ok well i met him one night whilst at a concert and i met him and um we were sitting on a bench outside of the place and i was actually waiting for my ex-bf to meet me but uh he didnt show so here i was with C.C. and one thing led to another and we ended up making out on a bench for the rest of that night andnow my parents are having a christmas party and he's coming. He was excellent and I really liked him...me and my ex-bf (the one that was supposed to meet me that night) got back together but I just couldnt get C.C. out of my head and we talked over e-mail and such so i broke up with ex-bf for him


ok now for guy numero deux (number 2) we'll call him I.L. (ya initials again) and i met him through a friend who liked him but he said that she was to young for him (he's 16 she's 13 and im a year and a half older than her) so shes my BFF and um i talked to him on the phone and such and i just met him in person yesterday and now its confirmed i like him

Answer 1

Whoa! Hold on...you're not even fifteen and you're making out. Listen girl, I think that you're not paying attention to what's going on in this world. You are now in a position to get pregnant or worse get AIDS and ruin your entire life. Having kids or some STD at this age is the last thing you want. Although it may feel good, it's simply not done. Don't do this to yourself and your family...grow up - be mature and start by making the right decisions. You've got to study - this is the time. So why don't you do that? You've gotta grow up, get some maturity and once you're settled down, only then can you think of anything else. Till then, control yourself. Love isn't what you think it is at this age. To understand love, you need to stop being selfish. Start off by taking care of your grades and repaying your parents - not financially...but by your deeds. I must say that you've got a flair for writing. The way you've framed your problem above is amazing...so do you write? If you do, then you must get in touch with a teacher who can guide you do better. Who knows? Maybe you've got a JK Rowling in you? Or who knows...someone even better?! I pray that the good Lord gives you the strength to do what is right. It doesn't really matter what you call God - but just trust him for once - he won't let you down.

Answer 2

do you want a boyfriend or just to hang? b/c if you want a boyfriend, then you'll have to choose. if you just want to hang out and date two guys, no strings attached then just do that. of course that means they could date other girls too. don't rush, just go on a couple more dates with each and you'll know who you like better.