I placed an online profile. I meet this cool guy and we have been communicating for about a month. Good conversations, lots of laugher and stuff. Well my good friend checked her profile on the same online service and guess what the guy email her too and with the same email, on the same day he emailed me. Know he has not been on that online site since that day. So my friend and I was thinking of she contacting him to see if he takes the cake and ice cream too. I say, I should tell him to move the hell on. What do you think? Play or stay?
2006-12-11 07:05:39 · 21 answers · asked by Shea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't the whole reason that you go on those sites is to get to know new people. to see if you may be compatible It appears that that is what he is doing I don't see where his corresponding with anyone else is wrong unless he and you have some other understanding. It looks like he's weighing his options in his search for a companion. Personally I have met several new friends through this type of correspondence and I know that I have done nothing wrong I haven't harmed nor lied to anyone. Talk to him and tell him of your concerns. But don't be putting the cart before the horse. In other words don't jump to conclusions after all you are just beginning a new friendship; You know the world would be a lonely place if we were to have only one friend.
2006-12-11 07:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.. whoa.. whoa!
Wait a minute!
What's the number one reason why people have on-line ads?
To meet people.. some for dating, some for friendships, etc. Unless you have some implied singular relationship with this guy, he's free to seek out and date anyone he wants to... just as you are.
Now, if you both have come to the conclusion that you guys are 'an item', and are starting a relationship, then yes, you'd be right in assuming that there's something amiss. But since your question only states that you guys have been communicating only, then I'd say there's nothing wrong with him (or you for that matter) contacting others.
On-line dating is tough, and unless you guys are within proximity of each other to meet, and develop any type of relationship more than you do now, I'd say you're probably wasting your time.. ya know?
2006-12-11 07:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by rollng_thundr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met someone very special online. Met some not so special too. Just like in regular dating, you need to weed out the ones that you don't match with. Dating on line is sort of a numbers game. Because he emailed you a couple of time doesn't mean you are exclusive does it? A lot of guys think they are players and looking for an overnighter but some like me were/are looking for a relationship. Just like in other dating. I recommend you date a lot and weed out the non matches and maybe find someone wonderful. Just don't expect to be exclusive right away. Good honest guys aren't easy to find on line, just like in life. Stop looking for a Brad Pitt lookalike and you are more likely to find a man of integrity. Good luck.
2006-12-11 14:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since the question is "PLAY or STAY", then its not really thatserious to you huh?? well if thats the case then continue to play, you guys have a good time & werent quite in a relationship right?? so then there is no violations here, hes surfing the web, he just happened to have the misfortune to now be looked at as a playa & i dont think he should, 4 one he is single & there is nothing wrong with what he has done unless dishonesty is playing a part....
2006-12-11 07:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people beware. everyone nows the internet is a place for the most dishonest people in the world they dont have to look u in the face to lie here just make u believe what u read . i say always play but never believe seeing is believing
2006-12-11 07:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he has not been on the site since that day, and it was the same day he met you... Seeing as this happened before you and he started communicating, he hasn't done anything wrong...
2006-12-11 07:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he have to be honest about? The two (well three) of you are just emailing one another, its not like hes telling you that you are his gfriend. So I dont think he did anything wrong. Just leave him alone.
2006-12-11 07:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not cheating to contact more than 1 person online, its not like he's obligated to you. thats how a online service operates. its always good to meet as many people as possible.
2006-12-11 07:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I'm an honest upfront guy. I can tell you I believe I am in the minority
2006-12-11 07:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on , there's a whole lot of fish in the sea.
2006-12-11 07:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋