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Have you ever been cheated on by someone you thought loved you most than anything? Did you forgive ? If YES - do you feel sorry for your decision?

2006-12-11 06:47:04 · 19 answers · asked by V 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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yes I have been cheated on by my ex- boyfriend, even though he kept denying that he wan't cheating, he finallly decided to come out and tell me, but I was still hurt b/c I already had knew the truth but was waiting on him to be an man and just confess and it took him an month afterwards to tell me. I didn't forgive him until a year later after we had broken-up, but its just stressful when you try to be honest with someone and they don't return the favor

2006-12-11 06:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by tooknbyrd 1 · 0 0

Yes I have been cheated on, no I didn't forgive him or give him another chance, and I never regretted it! Best decision I ever made!

2006-12-11 14:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm a women so of course I have been cheated on. There is no point in forgiving for me. I will never forget and trying to have a relationship with that person will only cause me more heartache and paranoia.

2006-12-11 14:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0 0

yes it is possible for you to move on with that person after they have cheated if they know why it happend in the first place, sometimes it can bring a couple closer together with time and work.

But it takes two people working together and showing each other they want it to work and proving that they can be trusted again. Actions speak louder than words. good luck.

2006-12-11 14:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0 0

i have been cheated on my a guy that made me believe he really really did love me and i did forgive him but i broke up with him and we remain just friends because he cheated on me that is not a sign of love at all i dont regret breaking up wtih him because once they cheat and you forgive them they will think oh he or she forgave me so i can do it again and just say i'm sorry i say once a cheater almost always a cheater so people change but some dont

2006-12-11 14:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by ash16 1 · 0 0

it's hard to forgive if someone cheated you....
but if the person is really the one you love...sooner or later you'll forgive them....
but still the level of trusness will decrease....
don't feel sorry for forgive...it's a good thing to do anyway..

2006-12-11 15:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by anna 2 · 0 0

I've been cheated on by someone that I loved, however I did (surprisingly) forgive them. I did break up with them eventually, but I forgave them after the break up as we became friends.

2006-12-11 14:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0 0

This is a very sensitive question and the decision you make can change your life. I decided ti leave the cheater and later married a great man and am now happily married, but the choice is up to you.

2006-12-11 14:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes,the guy i truely love cheated on me not only once,but 2x,but i always forgave him,but no matter how hard i try,its so hard to forget.i am still with him,i am happy with our relationship.i guess things like these happen to just any couple,its only how you deal with it that matters.people make mistakes,and forgiving is not that hard.i learned a lot tho for each time it happened,it hurt,i cried,but i became stronger.

2006-12-11 14:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0 0

My ex cheated on me less than 5 mths after we got married. No I did not forgive him - I divorced his sorry a**. He is sorry now - he married her, had 3 kids, and is now divorced from her too.

2006-12-11 15:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0 0

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