ok there this girl i work with who got out of a relationship like 3 mouths ago with a guy she was with for 2 years, she lives in ur bf parents house and they still think that she with him. she told me she isn't with him but she can't date anyone becaues she doesn't have a home to go back to if his parents kick her out. i told her how i feel, and i flirt with her all the time and she totaly fine with it. i think she feels the same way, i'm think i'm falling for her. what do i do now?
2006-12-11 06:43:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, you are right, this is a very tricky situation. . . . She will eventually have to get on with her own social/private life, and so I think you should just go ahead and ask her out on a date.She can't stay single forever just to have a roof over her head. . .but is she telling the truth, maybe she is still seeing him, afterall, she would hardly have moved into a seperate room would she? Just be careful, our minds can easily get carried away with the 'want what you can't have' scenario. . .possibly the same for her!
2006-12-11 06:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before you get involved with this girl, she needs to get rid of her baggage. If she is still living at her bf parents house, most likely she is still with her bf or sleeping with him. Why doesn't she have any where else to go? You are playing with fire if you get involved with this girl and some DRAMA down the road.
2006-12-11 14:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by ginluvsrob06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's telling the truth, keep up the flirting, and slowly move along. If she's lying - run. Why did her parents kick her out? That would be important to me.
2006-12-11 14:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look if u really like her then u should tell her to move out of her bf parents house cause eventully her bf parents are gion to find out the truth and if u have a place of u own than y dont u invite her to stay wit u for while????
2006-12-11 14:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by la sexii chela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. I didn't know girls use this lie now, it use to be a guy thing. She's STILL with him, no matter what she says. She's either just playing around, looking for some extra bootie action or keeping her options open so she has more "free housing" if this situation doesn't work out.
she sounds dangerous to me, sorry.
2006-12-11 14:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow sounds like a bad one, why don't you help her find another place to live. Then another thing I wonder about if she is not with him is she still sleeping in the same room with him, that would make me question her honesty.
2006-12-11 14:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to leave the ex bf's parents place. But I reckon she will not be there too long. Too many complications.
2006-12-11 14:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by ylgull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that girl could be in the same way as you are, just tell her about it and how you feel about this situation. maybe this could be the beginning of a love story :P
2006-12-11 14:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by belen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy for now. She just got out of a relationship. If you go serious with her so soon, I don't think it's gonna work out well.
2006-12-11 14:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You either sit back and wait or move on. It's a nasty situation you don't want to get yourself involved in.
2006-12-11 14:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by colombianqt_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋