So I'm 17 and I got a lady friend and we've decided to be high school sweet hearts. We decided on this because out of the 14 months (I know, not very long) we've been hanging out, we've done just about everything to make our relationship work. She is of asian decent so her parents are VERY strict. At first, I decided not to date her for that same reason and also because we never really got to hang out outside of school. So we've been officially dating for 9 months and lately it just sucks. Her older sister recently moved back into my girlfriend's house, so that made it even harder to spend any time with her, we aren't even allowed to study together anymore. We really only hang out in school, but lately, she's been somehow allowed to hang out with my bestfriend after school while I'm at work (her parents don't know about that). I'm jealous because I feel entitled to that free time with her because we never get to hang out (I know, very selfish). Question is, should I move on?
2006-12-11 06:39:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel u should move on are if you want to move on then do whats good enough for u to make you happy (to me its like she isn't trying at to spent time with u)
2006-12-11 06:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know how you feel. Communication is a big part of a relationship. If you feel that things can work out between you two, then let her know how you feel and what bothers you. If she is willing to work things out and make time for you then stay with her, if not then you should move on. Its not selfish of you to want to spend your free time with the person you are dating... good luck to you!!
2006-12-11 06:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i mean if u and her had been high schools sweetheart trust me that sweet but now that she doent have free time at least for and for u friend she does time for i believe that u shouldnt waste u time and move on as the same she dion to u and should find someone better than her
2006-12-11 06:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by la sexii chela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she hanging out with your best friend instead of you? Honey, you need to move on. This is so complicated. Too complicated for high school.
2006-12-11 06:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're only 17. there is alot more out there but if you feel that yall belong together then try to find out why your best friend is over there and not you. that is suspicious. you have a lot of life to live. live it up
2006-12-11 06:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This is obviously not meant to be. And you aren't "entitled" to anything.
2006-12-11 07:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should move on. if she really wanted to be with you she would find a way. good luck.
2006-12-11 06:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 17.
if it doesn't work move along. It'll never work if you really have to work so hard for it.
2006-12-11 06:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by [insert something clever here] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm pretty sure she isn't worth it and she's losing interest in you. Move on.
2006-12-11 06:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop the highschool drama.. it's not worth it.. move on !
2006-12-11 06:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋