worried bout how she is, if shes ok etc when go on trips
2006-12-11 06:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by dwdrimmer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a little faith, she made it a long time before you started dating her and my guess is she can do it again. She will be fine you just have to work on your trust issues b/c there is something that is making you weary. I say figure out what that is and then work on resolving it, b/c this obsession is only cute for so long and then it starts to hurt your relationship. Good luck.
2006-12-11 06:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it's not about trust i guess i can say it's normal. But always remember that even if you do worry, it won't change anything. You just end up feeling bad about it, worried. It can seem impossible to stop doing so, because you care obviously... but make sure you taste every moment you have together like they were your last. If you can't overcome your worries, at least you can have the assurance you really took advantage of every little moment possible. That's what i do... it helps alot and with time, you start being more confident that things are ok. I can't explain how but it just does... >had these worries that maybe my bf would never come home alive or get injured or something.. It's all good now because of my little trick. :) good luck! And remember, if you can't control it, don't hurt yourself for it by worrying to much!
2006-12-11 06:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 choices:
1. Dump her.
2. Understand that you can only appreciate the present, not control the future. Be thankful of the time you get to spend with her, but don't worry or concern yourself with things out of your control (worry = concerning yourself with things you can't control, by the way)
Don't worry, be happy. If things change, it's for the best. but, you can't weigh your mind down with her fidelity and whatnot when she's not with you. It will only cause more negative thoughts, and you will only feel bad. If you can't deal with this, then you might not be in the right mindset to be sharing your life with someone right now.
2006-12-11 06:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax
2006-12-11 06:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her call or text you when she gets a chance....and stop worrying so much!!! Find other things to distract you while she's gone.
2006-12-11 06:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worry about cheating on u? Don't be like that a girl needs to feel safe and be with some1 that is confident of what he has.
2006-12-11 06:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by •○Cristy○• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋