who is twice my age, he is rich though but i dont think its because of his wealth i love him, i have denied younger guys bcos of him,,its love i feel.......but to think of his age, im confused.He wants us to get wedded and he bought me a car on the wedding proposal, shoud i go on or mind what public will say.Does it affect my dignity as a young beauty?
2006-12-11 06:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO for it! if you love him like you say you do you won't care what other people think, age is just a number as they say. As long as you both want the same things in life then there is no reason why it should be a problem. One thing though you say you dont "think" you love him because of his wealth? ask yourself if he had nothing and didn't buy you a car would you still love him? If the answer is no then get out now before you hurt him. Don't take advantage of him you'll end up hating yourself.
2006-12-11 06:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what's your dignity as a young beauty got anything to do with it? You say the money doesn't matter, but would you marry him if he was poor? Finally, when he's 65+ and you're in your early 30's are you willing to nurse him through his waning years? Ask your dad what he thinks.
2006-12-11 06:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by aquaman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do not say what your age is,though in your piccy you look to be an attractive young lady,in the old days it was called selling your self for a hand full of gold,is it really love for this guy or is it that he fills all your expectations of the perfect guy for you?/
2006-12-11 06:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having second thoughts, its probably a sign from your subconscious that you really don't want to be with him. The money is nice, the cars are nice, but if you're changing his diapers, and pushing his wheelchair before you're even finished partying, it wont make for a happy life. On the other hand, if you really really love him, go for it! Who cares what everyone thinks, what matters is you and him, and the support you show each other.
2006-12-11 06:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tori H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You love him but in say, ten years time, will he want to be sat in his arm chair while you go out to party?
I dont know your age or his so i cant really give accurate advice. You need to use your head and heart and to think what will make you happy in the long run.
2006-12-11 06:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it from other angles. what if the ages were swapped or one/both of you were poor. if you want to be with him and not primarily for the money, then go for it. older man/younger woman combos are quite common in many cultures and you'll always run in negative people.
2006-12-12 09:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyaa babe.. if u love him so no problem. People will say against you. No one can keep the society happy,they need something to discuss but never mind that's your decision ,you need to spend your whole life with him so according to me listen to your heart what does it say,do it. Best of luck.
2006-12-11 06:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? Marry him if you love him unless it's the same guy you've been moaning about on another question...
2006-12-12 05:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by celestinerocks85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! if you really love him who cares what anybody else thinks? Just make sure u really really love him.
2006-12-11 06:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young beauty.Your fooling yourself Bowser.no-one else though.
2006-12-11 06:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋