im in hihgh school.whats the best way take ask a girl out?

Question

shes in my german class and i've had crush on her since september.i think shes a simple girl.i think that shes always looking at me too.maybe shes interrested but i dont know how can i know that too`?

Answer 1

Ask her if she wants to eat lunch with you at school, or something that doesn't require too much risk or committment.

If she joins you for lunch, you can mabye ask her if she likes you, or try and read her body language.

Joke around with her, if she laughs at your jokes, then she probably likes you. If she doesn't laugh at your jokes, she probably doesn't like you.

If you are both in German class, talk to her in German. That might impress her, and it is something you both have in common.

Just an idea. Good Luck !

Answer 2

Even 'simple' girls at that age love to be flattered, and surprised, to where attention is brought to her by everyone else.... By her 1 single red rose (no vase), and if you can think of a poem, try to write a very sweet and romantic poem about how beautiful and caring she is... (if you can't try to find someone to help you!) I almost can guarantee that she will say 'yes' when you walk up to her at school with those, and say, "I have had a crush on you for a long time, and I would love it if you were to go out with me on Friday night to see a movie and go to a nice dinner!" I must give you a warning though.. presents are a nice thing to receive... But DO NOT GO CRAZY!!!... You don't want to overwhelm her... Just flatter her! Good luck!

Answer 3

I was painfully shy when I was in school so I know how nerve-wracking it can be, especially when you're asking someone for the first time. I don't anyone could have been a bigger dork than me when it came around to asking someone out.

I know a common phrase that people say is "just be yourself" when it comes to asking someone on a date. Let me clarify that phrase for a moment. I agree that you should be yourself in the respect that you should display what is truly you, and not something fake or what you think the girl would like better than just you, because frankly you don't know what she likes in a guy. However, being yourself does not involve things that you know are negative qualities, like making fun of other people or making farting sounds with your armpit.

Now that I've explained that point, here's what you do.

First, you come up to her and make small talk. Since you are in German class, you might talk to her about that. In fact, you might want to ask her about an assignment, something genuine, because then you're just talking. No big whoop. I would suggest doing this at least a few times. If you're a friendly guy and have a good smile, be friendly and smile while you're talking to her. If you are a class clown, then crack a few light jokes that you think would not offend her. And at least make some eye contact.

Once you have done this a few times and maybe get to know her a little better, then I would suggest asking her out.

One of the most important things when asking out a girl is to make sure it is PRIVATE. That can be difficult, but it has to be done. The last thing you both want is to have someone overhear you asking her out.

Also, another requirement is that you clothes are clean and that you don't stink, including your breath. Other than that, look the way you normally look.

Make small talk again just before you ask her out. Don't just blurt it out to her. Girls want you to have a conversation with them, not a question-and-answer session. Then when you're done with the small talk, ask her. Say something like "Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to go to a movie/dinner sometime" or whatever. If she says 'yes', be prepared to know what date and time you think would be best. If 'no', oh well, there's a lot of girls walking around in the school. Your conversation should conclude with you asking her out. The big point to make here is that it should sound like asking her out isn't a big deal. In other words, if she doesn't want to, no bad feelings and you see her in class tomorrow and you still talk with her from time to time.

If asking her out is too much, though, another way to ease into it is to go with a bunch of friends somewhere, and ask her if she wants to go with. Then it doesn't seem like a date; instead it seems like you are inviting her into your circle of friends.

Sorry to write so much but I wish people would have told me this when I was younger. Good luck!

Answer 4

Talk to her, see how she reacts to you and then just ask her out. Maybe there's a formal dance coming up or a basketball game or something like that. you say she's a simple girl so you dont need to do anything dramatic. for example if there's a basketball game just tell her "Hey, are you going to the Basketball game?...You mind if I tag along? Maybe after the game I can take you to get a burger or something?" Or pass her a note in German class saying "Meet me by the lockers after class" and then ask her if she wants to have lunch with you. If you guys have lunch on campus, then just accompany each other. If you get to leave campus for lunch, then even better.

Answer 5

High school is such an easy place to ask out girls. There are so many things going on at the school that you can ask a girl to without finding yourself in an awkward setting. Pick something really casual like a pep rally, basketball game, or dance and ask her to meet you there. You'll both be surrounded by people you know so there won't be any pressure. If you hit it off, you can invite her to something like a movie or out to eat later. If not, you can separate amicably without feeling like a total loser.
Hint: if you do take her to a school function, don't forget to stay focused on her. It's easy get caught up with your friends and neglect your date at those things.

Answer 6

If you are Brad Pitt, just be yourself. If you are a jerk, really do not be yourself. hehe

Seriously, talk with her after class. Before you can get serious about asking her to see a movie or a football game, you have to be friends or at least a casual aquaintance of hers. Make sure your clothes (and hair) are neat and clean. If you haven't spoken with her much and just run up to her and say "wanna go out with me?" she might get scared. Later, if you ask her out and she says no, don't be too upset or angry. You always kinda take a chance when you ask a girl out. Really impress her by saying "Moechtest du gehen ins Kino heute nacht?" (Do you want to go to the movies tonight?) Be sure to use the du familiar form. The Sie formal form is only used when speaking to your work supervisors and teachers and ppl you don't know.

Answer 7

Next time u and ur friends are going to hang out...like for a school event or something...ask her if she would like to tag along.
It is a million times easier than u think.
If there is a cool movie that u are really interested in ask her if she is interested in it......tell her u cant wait to go watch it and ask her to join u.
I hope this helps...it seems too simple, but thats all it takes.

Answer 8

Most guys will say: Just ask her out, but the truth is that before you ask her out, u must KNOW that shes going to accept so u must look interesting to her. Give yourself value in front of her, dont act like you need her and look self-confident.
Before she goes out with you, she must want to go out with you.
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Answer 9

Spend some time proof reading your Question!
Don't let her see that "simple girl" thing, (((-- dork.)))
You say "Hi ! :) My name is Dork. Your in my German class - - how about we have lunch"
If your cool, you'll pay. You get that far, then you bring up the idea of a date elsewhere.
Do you need cue cards?

Answer 10

Just ask her out, You could say that she can bring a Friend along! this will make it easier on both of you. be sure you let her mom and dad know when you will returning home and be on time. The next date will go much smoother. have fun be safe