2006-12-11 06:26:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your heart. It knows. If not, see how he treats other people around him. The way he talks with people he doesn't like, around his subordinates...it gives a good idea as to how he would behave with you after you're married. Does he do anything for you other than spending money on you? Does he wait for you for long and greet you with an impatient smile? Does he ask you what's wrong, when you're silent (If he does both, then that's good!)? Does he love his parents - or does he crib about them?
Is he rude? Arrogant? Conceited?(All bad... :( )
Trust him, but only if he deserves it.
Marry him, only if he deserves you! But hey - the same applies to you too. Make sure that you pass the test too!
Think about them. The answers to these questions - make up your answer.
2006-12-11 06:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the one you are willing to spend the rest of your life with?
Can you see yourself growing old together?
Can you imagine sharing everything with him?
These are some questions that might provide some more light for you. Since I don't know you or your situation, the best I can say is that marriage is something very serious, although, it's not taken that way in todays modern world. Be sure you know hime well enough to answer the above questions. If you don't feel you "know" him that well don't go there. You also need to know yourself. I married when I was 18 and got it annuled within 6 months. Now that I'm almost 25 and my fiance and I have been together for over 4 years, I can easily answer yes to the questions I listed as with my other relationship, I don't think yes would have been the honest answers.
Best of luck and remember you can always take your time to make sure you don't jump into anything you are not ready for!
2006-12-11 14:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by angelkiss95670 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall in love with someone and you know that person is right for you inside and out. Can you see yourself with him for the rest or your life? Do you want to share your entire life being with this person? Does this person make you want to be a better person and support you in everyway and if not is this person willing to stick by your side through thick and thin. Even if you got mad at this person would you still want them in your life?
Marriage is more than just love its sharing your life, good and bad. Dont go into it lightly. Just like you know when your in love youll Feel when it is right and if you can grow with this person and want to build a life together. good luck
2006-12-11 14:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know it in your heart. You should definitely not accept a proposal if you are not sure. When the time, person, and place are right, you will know.
2006-12-11 14:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your questioning it then you shouldnt get married, hun, im getting married in 3 days, and i have not even thought about it. and you will know its something that you know esp when you look in his eyes, it something you feel good luck and god bless
2006-12-11 14:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Melindakaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1-do you feel like he's the one
#2-have yoiu had arguments before, if so, how did he handle them
#3- does it feel right
2006-12-11 14:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u KNOW he wont cheat, you have seen him truly mad about something, he knows whether or not to push your buttons when something is bothering you, you are both patient with each other, he'll let you cry when you need to and snap you out of it when you need to be snapped out. he respects you for who you are and there is not any abuse, either physical or emotional or verbal! and YOU love him for who he is!
2006-12-11 14:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by shutgstr1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just "know." It's like the whole peanut butter and jelly thing...you just have to fit together.
2006-12-11 14:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by cory_rudy99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the one for you if he's the one who initiated the marriage proposal..if most of the time he do things for you..he provides for you,is faithful to you,etc..
2006-12-11 14:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by rinoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to feel it in your heart and mind baby, but good luck.
2006-12-11 14:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋