Boyfriend has several blocked calls to his cell phoone. i had him change his number and he did with no hassles. I had issues with him talking to his ex prior, should i trust that he wants nothing to do wtih her, if we changed the number??? i dont know what to think.
2006-12-11 06:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know even know if its her calling now, but many dont have private cells #'s. do they??
2006-12-11 06:24:38 · update #1
trust is a very important thing in realtionships. If you cant trust him is not gonna work..
2006-12-11 06:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of cell services allow you to block your number showing on someone's phone, or have it visibile (it's up to you)...as for trusting him, if you had to have him change his number so he wouldn't talk to her, then it doesn't sound like he was 100% into that idea (or he'd have done it without you having a hand in it)...
Perhaps you should explore your own insecurity regarding is ex...if he really wants to talk with her, he'll find a way...are you going to be suspicous of every number you don't recognize that calls his phone from now on?
Without REAL trust and honesty, your relationship is doomed...
2006-12-11 14:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably not what you want to hear, but he may just be friends with his ex. A lot of couples decide to break up because they don't love each other 'that way' anymore. They just decide to be friends. OK, now that I said all of that here's what I really think...you have every right to be paranoid. The past is in the past, and his ex is the past. If he's talking to her than he's up to no good. I've been through this. Ex-boyfriend told me they were just friends, but he got her pregnant and married her two weeks after i dumped him for cheating on me. Don't let your relationship get that out of hand, just control the situation now while you can. Don't go crazy on him, just calmly let him know that you don't appreciate him talking to his ex, and if he is still talking to her than it's disrespecting you. My best advice is just to talk to him. Be up front about your feelings. Good luck!
2006-12-11 14:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, there's nothing wrong with talking to an ex...do you talk to any of yours? as long as they're not "friends with benefits", lol...alot of ppl become friends after breaking up....second, he changed his phone number at your request, without any hassles or arguements...that shows he's there for you...most guys would be like "wtf"?? and tell u off...third of all, if you really really think someone else is calling him on a romantic term, tell him to prove it by leaving his cell with you...ask him for his voice mail password, and whoever calls from the blocked number can leave a message, and you can hear it yourself...but that won't guarantee proof, cuz if he works, phone calls can be made to this girl from him, letting her know not to call his cell for a couple of days...the main issue here is trust...has he cheated on you before, to betray your initial trust? Or he can easily turn it around on you and tell you that you're the one cheating by accusing him...they say that the accuser is usually the one guilty :P...just simply ask him to tell whoever's calling to call from an unblocked number, or else the call won't be answered...or tell him to include both of your names on his voicemail, so that other girls will notice he has a lady...(that won't even phaze sum girls, tho)...good luck...if the dude's worth loving, he's worth trusting...but he has to prove this himself, if he feels you're worth loving...he will....hasslefree :D
2006-12-11 14:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by dre o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snoop sister snoop... Use *69 or *87... *87 will not let a blocked or unknown number call your phone!!!
2006-12-11 14:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of people do. I just don't answer them and wait to see if they leave a message.
2006-12-11 14:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get all paranoid ok?
but if i were you,
i`d be pulling all my hair out
trying to figure who he was calling.
maybe,
you should have a nice lil chat with him
about it?
2006-12-11 14:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not trust him one bit because i know how guys are if you don't please him like he wants he will go back to his ex
2006-12-11 14:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bratteny69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him, why are you with him?
2006-12-11 14:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋