ok me and my girl have been together for a while and the other night i went over to her house and one thing led to another and we were about to do the deed. then right before i was about to do it i went limp for no reason i can think of. i really likeh her and everything and i know she wants it. i felt really embarassed. what do i do next time around? i think it was first time jitters.
2006-12-11 06:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Chris M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it's not the jitters maybe it's because your not ready and you shouldn't fource it.. maybe she is not the right person, you may think you like her.. and sometimes trying to do it is hard because you feel u still have to impress.. of course you want to feel like it's the most amazing feeling.. but you have to be with someone who makes you feel comfortable as well..
2006-12-11 06:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably was the jitters - otherwise known as 'performance anxiety'. Just relax, and don't stress so much over it. It should be fun, not a chore. When the time is right, it should all work for you. Also, regardless of your age, you might also need to speak to a Doctor about Erectile Dysfunction if this continues...there are other reasons for this, such as high blood pressure, which could be very serious, even if you are very young and otherwise healthy.
2006-12-11 14:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by hi_its_bryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sucks. Yes it was first time jitters. Take a deep breath and relax. And I promise you next time you will arise to the occasion.
2006-12-11 14:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bigg Reddz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably was first time jitters. try to just let nature take it's course and not put so much pressure on yourself. be sure to use protection.....you may be afraid of getting her pregnant, or an std, etc....
2006-12-11 14:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was first time jitters.....
So next time it will be the second time so nothing to worry about...
2006-12-11 14:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatly first time jitters. your body was just acting weird out of nerves.
trust me now that you have been to gether a little more intimatly like that. you will be a lot better.
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2006-12-11 14:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by n2th8er11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have been but if it happened again I wouldnt think that thats what it was. ou could have also not felt comfortable where it was going to happen at on top of it being the first time with her
2006-12-11 14:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get your hands on it, there's always Viagra. While it is a Level 3 controlled substance, it is widely available in most cities and is rarely prosecuted if you get caught.
2006-12-11 14:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really was probably just that you were nervous. Just try to relax about it next time.
2006-12-11 14:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by dontimaginetheyllallcometrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you or your girlfriend is....just don't rush it....don't think about it, dwell on it, etc. When and if it happens, it will happen....make sure you ALWAYS have protection.
2006-12-11 14:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋