When it comes to girls why do they get sooooo shy???
2006-12-11 06:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because...they are nervous and scared of rejection. Rejection stings...when you go up to a girl and you try to talk with them and they ignore you or laugh at ur face.it hurt bad. Guys sometimes are just scared about what will happen in that ackward situation. Good looking guy are always confident but normal guys still get insecure and get worried about what ppl might think of them.
2006-12-11 06:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by aznromeo4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, Im in this sitution, its not really shyness, because that an excuse for not leaping forward to new challenges.....It mostly the feeling that we get internally, Ok ist fear and the reaction our body takes when we go and talk to a stranger.....If we understood that this reaction is normal and we CANNOT control it only build around it, it would make talking to women easier......I have reheased this millions of times in front of the mirror, but my Fear of approaching women is gone now I just fear that Ill be trying to be cheeky - Its a constant game
So Theres this method, called the mystey method, that As soon as you seen a lady you want to talk to, Notice how you like her then quickly throw that thought away and Give your self 3 seconds to approah her.....If in those 3 seconds you still standing where you saw her, Forget about it, Because you fear will begin to build - Don't let it control you but guide You
Love Bal
2006-12-11 06:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Alien Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy? you sure? it could be just being careful.
Have you ever seen your dad deck your date for touching you?
I have had a gal I was flirting with that slapped me I wasn't being rude but she was lez. Shy, No way, Just careful.
Shy only lasts to middle school.
2006-12-11 06:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what they get shy about,me it's just certain things, but I'm ok with everything else.
2006-12-11 06:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After getting your hand slammed in the door several times, would you be cautious about opening another one?
2006-12-11 06:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if we knew I guess we wouldn't be so shy now would we.....
2006-12-11 06:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me its cause i was always told no one would want me so I'm afraid to ask any one out
2006-12-11 06:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz' we don't wanna get embarassed when we do something stupid... heheh
2006-12-11 06:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We feel inferior to you.
2006-12-11 06:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋